Willy,
Sorry to hear that, really am...
I do think she could have told you her decision in a better way than she did. Text is a really cold way of telling your lover Bye!! Even a telephone call would have been better, if she didn't want, or couldn't face up to a face to face meeting!!
Chinese women have a really bad habit of not telling you what's going on, we as westerners are just not used to it. So i would advise all you guy's that have Ladies, whether you are engaged, married or otherwise to get this phenomenon cleared up, as soon as possible. Don't run away with the idea that, ...that is going to be a simple matter either. ...Because it won't be, but it really has to be done as early in your relationship as possible.
Like myself, if you ask any of the married guys here, it has caused problems in the past for them. They just have this idea in there head, that you don't need to be bothered about such things, when obviously you DO!!
David....