Shaun,
I have a feeling you maybe including me among those that would be offended by what you have said in your posting #08 ...hahaha!!. But you would in fact be ''very wrong'', in fact i agree with just about everything you have said here Shaun.
What i said in my previous posts, were based on the general aspirations of what this Forum stands for and is trying to achieve as a body. That being, to try and instill a decent level of honesty within both agencies and the Ladies themselves. Those that were arguing or attacking me couldn't seem to see the difference between Mike's personal decision to forgive and move on with his lady, and the points that i was making as a general statement of fact.
Throughout all my posts i belive that i showed my support to Mike and Jessica. And like you indicate above, he is, ...one of only a very few men here that has the strength of character to see past, and work through all the surprises that have been thrown at him, during his brief stay in China. I also believe i said that i don't consider Jessica is a bad person at all, circumstances got the better of her, which led to the situation in China coming to a head.... But we can't condone those circumstances!!!
I will as everyone here has done, as in wishing for a successful conclusion to Mike and Jessica's Journey. It may have started as a turbulent time, but that's no reason why the waters can't be calmed over time, and a true happiness can be found between them ...a long lasting one at that too! Best of Luck to you Mike...
David.....