Mike good words.
New guys pay attention to one thing Mike said because it is common with Chinese women. "today she told me, all is forgiven, and she is VERY Happy, These ladies are amazing in this, they forgive and foget so completely, as if nothing happened, it is over , it is done, time to move on, no bad mood, no holding a grudge, not looking to punish you, .... WOW!
She knows it hurt both of us, and refuses to hold blame to either person, and I agree with her, the big problem was not her fault, or my fault, but it was the situation, the misunderstandings, the communication issues, and now it is resolved!"
To my knowledge the only thing most will not forgive is infidelity. They are amazing women.