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INFO: CHINESE MEN TOWARDS DIVORCED CHINESE WOMEN

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Willy The Londoner:
Just to add to this.

Since living here I have made a good friend with the husband of my girls best friend.

He talks openly to me about his girlfriends, past and present, whilst is wife is at the same table.  

He sees nothing wrong in this at all.  He is the ruler of his household and that is how the women like it.

He is on his second marriage and his view is that because this wife has not produced a son for him as his first wife did he may well move to a third is the next one is also a girl.  

Mind you he is wealthy enough to be able to do this.

I tried to explain to my girl that if we married she would have an equal say in what goes on.   But she was insistent - she would look after the home and all decisions would be mine.

The culture is different and will always be so for a  few many years to come and that is probably why we are attracted to look for a Chinese partner.

Willy

David5o:
David,

What can i say, ..... Lucy hasn't got a good word to say about them, she reckons they think they should come 1st, 2nd, 3rd ......10th and if there's any more, that's theirs too.. haha!! They have been brought up from the earliest age, to be superior to girls, even the girls have been brought up to think the same way.

There culture may well go back Thousands of years, but it didn't teach there men a thing. In fact as far as men and women are concerned the progress stopped thousand of years ago too. The general truth is they treat there women as just another possession, if it doesn't suite them at anytime, they trade it in for a newer model.
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Willy,

The really rich Chinese men, have normally married into a very influential family. It would be more than there financial life is worth to divorce that woman. So they will have mistresses, ....some have two or more on the go at any one time, they would be set-up with a flash apartment and even an account with a card!!. This would also be quite acceptable to his wife's family too!!.....

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There are, a whole host of things that go on in China, that very few people outside of China know, or are aware about, Obviously they don't want you to know either. And you probably wouldn't believe, if you were told anyway....


David....

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