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INFO: CHINESE MEN TOWARDS DIVORCED CHINESE WOMEN
Arnold:
My Observation on this , is my Wife's Parent's are never affectionate in Public or with us around . The only time I seen them holding Hand's was at our Wedding , from looking at the Photo's . Never a Hug or a Kiss or a Wo ai ni . not that they don't love each other , just strange to see . But that is most likely going to change with the younger Generation coming up , see alot of teen's and young Adult's hugging and kissing in Public . Have to remember though , this is in huge City's like Shanghai and Beijing . One other thing I have noticed , these Men , all keep there mistreating's of Women out of the Public view , unlike here in the States . Here the Men or the Women light up wherever they happen to be .
More power to us , for treating them the way a Woman should be treated .
victor-hills:
Yeah now what your saying vince im lost with that pic too?????
MLM:
the new generations show thier feelings more then the older generations, also guys did you know that a divorced woman or a woman with a child is considered untouchable by most Chinese men and that they are talked to badly for dating a Laowie.
I have heard this from at least 14 women in China over the last couple of years, amazing isn't it that Chinese men wouldn't even look at these women, although there is always the exception to any rule.
Paul Todd:
Ni Hao Sameldrum!
This happened 22 years ago to my "ai ren", and I believe it was a direct result of the Chinese government introduction of it's one child policy in 1979. In general Chinese men want a son and heir, so a daughter is worthless. Almost one strike and your out.
The Chinese government refers to it under the official translation of family planning policy. It officially restricts the number of children married urban couples can have to one, although it allows exemptions for several cases, including rural couples, ethnic minorities, and parents without any siblings themselves.
The policy has been implicated in an increase in forced abortions and female infanticide, and has been suggested as a possible cause behind China's significant gender imbalance. Nonetheless, a 2008 survey I read [ Pew Research Center ] showed that over 75% of the Chinese population supports this policy. The authorities claim that it has prevented more than 250 million births from its implementation to 2000.
I find it difficult to believe that all Chinese men think this way, as I have a 17year old daughter and spending time with her is wonderful. These people will never have that feeling in there lives, which is sad for both sides.
As for child custody, this explains it far better than I could. http://tech.mit.edu/V118/N57/wan.57c.html
I hope this helps
victor-hills:
Same here vince my lady sead the same he was not botherd with her such a shame.
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