Seems real. The only thing in question is the center section. It starts with "Thanks for your understanding" and the following two sentences. Other then that?
She is answering my email line by line so if you had seen my letter it would have made sense.
The following two sentences :
"I always think I am the luckiest girl in the world and I thankful the site let us meet and I thankful my agency and translator let us know each other better. Well, I would like to introduce them to you one day when we meet each other. Dear, I really cherish you very much. I sincerely wish you are the right one I am looking for. "
were in response to my request to know the name(s) of the translators helping and a reflection that it would be nice to know this as they are helping us translate from very personal thoughts.
I believe the response given here was likely influenced by the translator which is why I wanted an opinion on the letter as a whole
some ideas .....
It could be her, with a lot of help and guidance from the translator and/or the agency ....
she did ask you some questions ... so answer her honestly, and then
ask her some questions that require thought, so they cannot just copy and paste in general answers....
or
tell her something real, and detailed about you, and ask her what do you think ??
like .... I have a hobby called and I go to events every month, and we and ......
and see how she reacts .... if the reply does not match .... then it is not her
it can be hard to cut thru this, but you have to try, and at some point cut your losses if it is not working
Mike
Most of our letter actually talk about exactly what you outline and the answers are very direct and reflect what we are both saying. The letters always address what I write. Actually quite perfectly. Now either the agency is really good or she is real. I really hope it is the later because she seems really terrific. She shares personal information (up to a point) but I realize that point is what she is comfortable sharing. I never ever push.
Shane,
The pessimist in me thinks the agency knows about you & is making a last ditch effort to get more money from you. The request could be from someone from the agency to string you along. The message seems out of character for a Chinese woman
Ok... more reality check. I always get a response from my lady & the agency within or less than 24 hours. Very impressive. I have asked in my last letter (this morning) the following"
"How does the translation service work? Do you receive an email with a translated message from me & in return you email your translator who sends me your message in English? OR do you go to the agency to pick up or send a message where you sit with the translator? Do you or your translator have a webcam? I so very much would like to hear your voice & see you when we communicate. I know the translator will need to be present and this is fine. Would it be possible to arrange this?"
Her email to me (received late last night) was:
---START LETTER---
Dear Justin,
Thanks for you send the websites to me. I have seen many Coins there. (*^__^*)
I am sorry, I can't opened the first website that you send to me about the Hudson River. I don't know why.
I am so glad to hear that you enjoyed my answer. I am also enjoyed your answering. Thanks for you believe Chinese woman.
In my opine, Chinese woman are very traditional with tender, considerate, thoughtful, virtuous and home-oriented. So you made the right choice to look for you life partner. Heheee.
I do not live with my family and I moved another city several years ago, I live with my best friends, she always helps me when I am in trouble, and she seems to be my relative. In fact, I just want to go out for my dream. Sometimes I really feel lonely, I do miss my family, so I will go to visit them when I have holidays, they love to see me and miss me very much!!!
From my house to my company is not so far maybe 15 minutes on foot. I walk to work.
Yes, I live near the Museum maybe two hours by bus. I hope when you visit here I would show Museum to you one day.
My favorite type of food is seafood, do you like seafood? My favorite musician is Kelly Chen. She is very famous in China and l like her songs very much. My favorite movie is Korean romantic movies. Have you ever watched Korean movies?
As for me, I am serious about love and I do not like playing games. I do not have any boyfriend before.
Well, I think the romantic thing is very simple, when I feel lonely he could give me a warm shoulder, when I am in bad mood, I hope he could comfort me, of course I will do it in return. I do not think a bouquet of roses and chocolate that is romantic and I do not think a romantic thing need to waste of money to complete. I just hope we can share happiness and sorrows with, as long as enjoy our life, that also is very romantic things. Don't you think so?
Have a good time and hope to hear from you soon. (xie xie ni de lai xin, wo zai ze li deng ni de lai xin)
Best wishes to you and take care!
Sincerely yours,
---END LETTER---
What do we think? Seems real right? She ends all letters with "Best wishes to you and take care! Sincerely yours, "
I feel like she is someone I could fall for (slowly of course)... I just don't want to be burned. I really appreciate everyone's views