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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #45 on: November 04, 2009, 07:27:50 pm »
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 I was about to buy it, but my credit was rejected, probably after withdrawing so much the day before.


Philip did you phone your credit card company to alert them to using the card overseas? On my 1st trip I used my credit card to buy a watch and for hotels but also, like you, when I tried to make a major purchase (laptop computer) my credit was refused. When I got back home my office answering machine had a message from the credit card security department. When I phoned I got confirmation about that they blocked the transaction. I guess the hotel and watch was a minor cost so no red flag was raised. Now when I travel I make sure to phone the credit card company so as not to be embarrassed.
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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #46 on: November 04, 2009, 07:47:59 pm »
No, Rhonald, I didn't inform my credit card companies, but I was always able to withdraw money on the second day after each transaction. Plus I had a fair amount of Chinese currency that I brought from England. In the case of the computer, it wasn't embarassing, it just added to the fun of the experience. I might inform them next time.

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #47 on: November 05, 2009, 01:12:09 am »
Before I moved to China I tried to tell both of my banks so that I would not have problems with my debit cards.  They told me that they are unable to programme the computer to recognise that.  The computer can only be notified after it stops a card being used and you telephone them and they reset the computer.

In the four months that I haver been here both cards have been stopped twice at different times and I call from here with a telephone card.

But I now take out far more money than I need from my UK accounts and pay it into either of my Chinese accounts so I can always use the Chinese cards if needed.

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #48 on: November 05, 2009, 08:38:18 am »
OK candy man what about day 6?

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #49 on: November 05, 2009, 08:44:49 am »
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Back in the hotel, we had another lovely intimate night together. If you are having such a sexy time for four days in a row, two or three times a night, your thoughts inevitably turn to giving Willy the Londoner a call!


In sincerely trust that call may have been contemplated for my excess Viagra and not for any personal service!!!!!!! :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:

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« Reply #50 on: November 05, 2009, 03:27:51 pm »
Yes, Willy, it was the Viagra I almost needed you for, not your other services. I think that even you need to preserve your energy and you know the expression, two’s company, three’s a crowd. Ha ha!
Day 6 Everything with my lady feels sexual – holding hands, shopping, eating, singing, waiting for that message to translate,  taking a taxi, and, er, sex. I am always looking for her hand to hold, and so is she.
We went to another coffee shop and met with a couple of my lady’s friends. It was lovely to see her laughing with her friends. They are very down to earth, and, like everyone who knows her, describes my lady as kind and caring. I knew that, but it is good to hear it from friends who obviously care about her. We have received everyone’s blessing, family and friends.
I am not used to everything going so well. But even after having had a bad first experience in China (it seems to be almost a rite of passage for a lot of guys), I knew that I would find my love in China. And I have.
My lady insists on feeding me. Is it wrong to like it? She’s always choosing the best bits of meat and putting it in my mouth with chopsticks. What will they think in an English restaurant if she starts doing that?
We go to the computer shop again, this time I have the money. After another bit of bartering fun, my lady suddenly decides we don’t need to buy the computer today, which amuses me no end. It seems she is carefree with my money when it comes to Buddhist offerings, but frugal for everything else. Or maybe she was just testing me.
One of the nicest things is the way she initiates physical contact more than me. I’m not really used to it, but I’m not complaining. Not a lot happens in public, of course, but sometimes I can’t resist kissing her, and she is not unhappy when this happens.
I finally give up on the flight. I think about alternatives, then have a whizz idea. Instead of me flying out on Saturday to Beijing and overnighting  there before flying back on Sunday, I could get a long sleeper train to Beijing with my lady and spend Saturday night in a Beijing hotel. Then she can fly back to Guangzhou on Sunday. My lady gives me a crinkly smile when I suggest this.
We go shopping for tomorrow’s packed lunch. Many of the refrigerated foods like yoghurt are past their sell-by date, so I know my lady is not being fussy when she checks for the date on everything.
We have a nice meal, Changsha-style, with her friends from the previous day. We check out of the hotel and make our way to the station, ready for our 1.13 train to Beijing. I don’t think we did very much today, but we were happily busy doing nothing.
p.s here is a pic of me with the in-laws on the first day
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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #51 on: November 05, 2009, 04:00:29 pm »
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Now when I travel I make sure to phone the credit card company so as not to be embarrassed.



Rhonald, that's good advice.

It's also good to give them a contact number they can ring. Even when you tell them that you're going to be travelling overseas, often they give you a call just to check when there has been a large cash withdrawal at an ATM or a large purchase.

Those warm and fuzzy banks, they look after you just like a mother *laughs*

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #52 on: November 05, 2009, 08:08:17 pm »
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Yes, Willy, it was the Viagra I almost needed you for, not your other services. I think that even you need to preserve your energy and you know the expression, two’s company, three’s a crowd. Ha ha!


Two's company, three's a crowd - four's a ........ well thats just beyond my wildest dream nowadays.  Ok I will leave you to it.   Keep up the good work.  Britain is counting on you to cement Anglo-China relations to a new level.

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #53 on: November 08, 2009, 11:13:52 am »
Days 7 and 8
We boarded the 14 hour sleeper train from Changsha to Beijing at 1.13 am. In a compartment of six bunks, we had the top two. Unfortunately, the bunks were only big enough for 1 thin person, not two. Plus, my lady would not take kindly to public, erm, displays of affection. So we had to make do with holding hands across the bunks until our arms dropped off.
My lady arranged our packed lunch across the storage compartment next to our bunks like a pro. It was an impressive display.
We arrived in Beijing in the mid-afternoon, and there was a cold, biting wind. My lady could not stop shivering. Not Changsha weather at all. I gave her my coat. I didn't need it. I am from lovely England. We are made of sterner stuff.
We booked into a hotel near the station. We checked out the shuttle buses to the airport the next day, looked into flights for her to Guangzhou. But she was a little bit nervous, never having flown before, so she decided to take a very long train to Guangzhou. We ate in the hotel restaurant. It was basically a big bowl of soup and you chucked everything in.. My lady taught me how to split the cabbage into strips with the chopsticks, then she proceeded to feed me as if I were some kind of hungry horse. I ate about 10 times the amount I would normally eat. I didn't really have a choice. Ha ha! Strange thing, there was no rice and no tea. I thought these things come as standard.
We went to bed quite early. I got a slight bout of superstition, because the beds were facing the same way as they had been when we had our not good night, but it didn't matter. We had the absolutely most bissful night. The only bad thing was that we had to get up to go to the airport the next morning.
The next day (8), it was SNOWING outside our window. We took the shuttle bus. My lady was like ice, and it took ages to warm her up. I checked my bag in and we went to the airport Starbucks. It was quite quiet and sombre between us. She kept on trying to give me food and drink to take with me and I told her I wasn't allowed them on the plane. We kissed goodbye at the customs. I tickled her under her arm to make her laugh, because I didn't want to see her looking sad. Then I went through security and disppeared down the escalator. She texted me a few minutes later to say that when she saw my shadow disappear, her heart pounded up and down and she burst into tears.
Because of the snow, and the lack of proper de-icing facilities, I was stuck in the plane for 7 hours. I was supposed to get back to London at about 3 pm. I ended up getting home after midnight with work next day.

The trip was about as successful as I could possibly hope for from a first visit. We love each other, she is real, we are physically compatible, I like her friends and relatives; they like me. I had some great adventures.
But now I have been back a week, I am all too aware that this is just the beginning and we have an awful long way to go. I will catch up with myself in future updates, because quite a lot has happened since I returned, but for now, this has been the story of my trip.

p.s. this photo was taken at the Sun Yat-Sen museum on the first day

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #54 on: November 08, 2009, 12:27:48 pm »
Philip , thanks for the very interesting and lovely Trip .
There is one thing though , that stood out of all you have written . That is , your Lady's refusal to Fly back to Guangzhou and take a roughly 22 Hour Train ride instead . I know , she has never flown before ... but what about when it's time to be with you in England ? What will happen then ? How will she get over her fear of flying now ? You have to make this very clear to her , that this day will come for her and she can not take a Train to England . Hope you will have all this worked out , when the times comes .

Congrat's to both of you and the lovely Children , you are a lucky Fellow .

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #55 on: November 08, 2009, 01:02:32 pm »
Hehe, well Arnold, that not exactly true. I did a little bit of travelling when i was younger, I went thru Europe to Moscow on a train where i caught the Trans Siberian railway, Which goes all the way to Beijing... Ok, so the Moscow to Beijing part took about two weeks, but it is possible to get from Beijing to London all the way by train, (thanks to the Channel tunnel) But take a comfortable cushion with you....:icon_biggrin:

Good luck with your relationship Philip. I am happy things went well for you.
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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #56 on: November 08, 2009, 09:35:18 pm »
Phillip,

Quite a story.  I enjoyed it.

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #57 on: November 08, 2009, 10:25:01 pm »
Interesting thread Phillip,

I would like to hear more.

I am arriving back in the UK on  Wednesday 25th November and flying back to China on Sunday 29th November so i have a couple of evenings free.  Maybe we can relate our stories so far over a meal and a drink one evening.

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« Reply #58 on: November 09, 2009, 04:13:30 am »
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Interesting thread Phillip,

I would like to hear more.

I am arriving back in the UK on  Wednesday 25th November and flying back to China on Sunday 29th November so i have a couple of evenings free.  Maybe we can relate our stories so far over a meal and a drink one evening.

Willy


A London get together would be nice Willy, I'm not sure how many folk live around here though.

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RE: sticky like candy
« Reply #59 on: November 09, 2009, 06:04:50 am »
You are wrong Arnold... You can take the train to London but it takes a h*ll of a long time :icon_cheesygrin:
You can take the Trans Siberian railroad from Beijing to Moscow and then a train to western Europe.. I guess it will take a month to get to London..

Great news Philip.. Next step is to go back and get married..
I guess that we will have a meeting in Changsha sometime in the future. I know a small nice pub that have Western and Chinese beer

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