Cheers to you all.
To be honest i'm still so split down the middle about this one, but i do see that most of the guy's seem to be saying cut your losses. Whats annoying now is that i sent my letter yesterday, long before the close of business in China, and the letter is still undelivered.....!! so she now wont get it till monday, and a good chance her reply may not get to me until tuesday, this is another reason why i hate the emf's, things sometimes take ages to get translated and delivered to your chosen lady. But i have to say, that after writing my letter yesterday, i think i'm leaning towards the cut my losses option. I have found one of the affiliated agencies now has video profiles. Tho not many of the girls have used it, but there are quite a few on there who have. At least then you get a better idea of her true looks and English ability. Tho, there is still no guarantee that she is the same girl answering your emf's right? But if this girl is the real deal, i think i will give it at least another month just to see if she will give me more direct contact. I mean, if she is my true love, spending another £100/£150 on emf's is kinda worth it i think. But it is her birthday on the 27th, i have already sent her a card via snail mail, and maybe rather stupidly, a small gift through Chnlove (i'm a sucker for it eh?:icon_biggrin: ) But if that does not show her i am genuinely interested in her, and i still don't get the progression in contact that i thought we should be doing. Then i'll be back on the market once again.... fourth time lucky maybe?? :icon_biggrin: Tho i think next time, i may ask my brothers first if they know of any suitable Asian ladies that are looking for an English boyfriend...
Andy....