Hi John....Sorry, payment only accepted in Bullion...the Pound and the Greenback are getting worth less and less each day !!!!!
...To refresh or not...that is the question......For me, I never put any connotation, good, bad or indifferent on this issue.
Because I dont think that the Lady herself necessarily has any influence on this decision. Profiles are the Agency/CHNLove "inventory" and represent all they have "for sale" into their marketplace.
So I theorise that they will hang on to profiles as live bait until the lady herself either meets her Western man and pays them the agreed Contract sum, or she can personally persuade/bully them to remove it for whatever other reason she has.
It is so easy for them to not pass on your request to both hide your profiles and to reply to you in the way they did...you have no idea what , if anything was actually said to Fei........this is the dreaded trap of the translator issue we all suffer from constantly.
You have no idea that Fei really asked them to hide her profile and they said 'yes' and they didnt do it......just wrote the fluff to you as if it came from Fei.
Can you see that this is a total catch 22 situation...never can be resolved until.....you meet her in person, or get onto QQ or similar. At that point, they cant interfere with you and her.
But , as I understand from the Women I have corresponded with /met...to get on to QQ involves them in a fee payable to the Agency...so to take this step, they will need to have some sort of thought that you are serious and genuine...not just after a cheap thrill. I have heard that sme women agreed to a QQ session with a Man and were confronted with him on camera...naked and "excited"...so dont forget that there are a huge number of weirdos/psychos out there and these women must be a bit careful about the more personal contact methods.
I know it is costly and filled with risk, but for me, if there appears to be genuiner interest on both sides, I would go to visit her and check out the Chemistry.
I truly believe that Ronan (Irishman) has got it right. He is prepared to dive off to China to verify which Ling, or other Lady might "light his fire"...and he is not clouded by being obsessively in love with every woman he has contact with. I will copy him, because I also believe (as I have posted here before ) that you cant be in love with someone you have never met (this is MY opinion and I know some of you dont agree...so be it ).
Only by a face-to-face can you ever be CERTAIN of anything !!!!
So that MUST be the Key Objective..to get to visit her (risky and costly) and decide what to do next , or..get on to QQ (cheaper but less effective) and also get off the Agency/Translator influence.
Shaun.....FOSTERS
How dare you propose to poison me after giving you freedom to use my copyright words...and i thought you were a mate !!!!
Fosters Lager is an abomination invented by Colonial Aussies to export all over the World to hopefully have a huge collective laugh at all the freocious hangovers.
Here we use it to clean the windows with...we would NEVER drink the stuff !!!
David E