Gezzz, haven't read that for a while! You must have dug deep to find that one my friend! If you had told me a year ago that I would be married and living in China now I would have been amazed. The past year has just been full on. learning about China and sucking up every bit of information I could find about it! The age thing was deliberate on my part I wanted somebody who had a bit of life experience someone on the same page as me.:angel:
I read the stories here and I think I was one of the lucky ones, everything fell into place for us and I got good advice every time I needed it. Honestly the only doubts I had came from reading about other peoples fears you know ,is it a scam,who am I really writing too,is it all about her wanting to leave China. I'm not saying that these are not legitimate fears but they can leak into your relationships without you noticing. Max tells people to get out of there own heads and I think that's great advice. Spending time in Asia defiantly helped me understand what I was getting into,but people like Rob who had never travelled outside of there own country before and still had the guts to follow there dream, well there hero's in my book.
I will say that if you are open and honest, loving and caring Chinese women will knock your socks off, so all the stuff you have to go through is all worth it in the end. Try to imagine yourself in there position that helps.
Thanks mate, Ming Zhi would be very happy to talk with your wife and any others out there as well, seems there not that comfortable posting stuff . Well I'm being told breakfast is on the table so I better stop this nonsense:icon_cheesygrin:
Paul
