Re: Happy now!!!

[MLM]

Hi guys, thought I'd let you all know what has been going on, well Mary is settled in at the hotel and all is good there and I was told that because this is our ( the companies ) 10th rental in as many months this on is 1/2 price, its amazing that this is happening now and right after Mary walked through the lobby, LOL.


Now as far as the Lawyer goes, yeah he is good, he got my first divorce so I didn't have to pay her anything, and we had nothing so, the second wife got nothing, I got full costody of our two kids and she is paying child support to me ( Haha) and I got the house, yeah I think he will rip this guy a new butt hole for Bubba to play with.
Guys, believe it or not I would not have guessed this of him, when he did these two divorces for me it cost me plenty but well worth it, he is a better then I would have thought.

Marys husband is and will be in jail/ county, for at least 3 more months and then he will apear in court and Mary will not even need a lawyer for this, the state has picked up from here and has filed criminal charges against him, among the other charges there is this one " Inhuman treatment, kid napping and false imprisonment " these are all federal felony charges", guys if convicted this means he gets big time.

I told Mary of the job waiting for her when Zhou gets back and I don't know if I like giving good news anymore, I hate,... hate to see a Chinese woman cry, they can really ball up thyat face.
I think I will have a really loyal employee in Mary, I also feel left out of a private joke or something, I asked Mary and Mie how things were going and they both looked at each other and started laughing :huh:, I didn't and still don't get it, did I miss something?   Oh well.

Thank you guys for all the kind words, but I am just doing and acting the way I was I was raised to do, I don't think I could do any thing less.
I'll tell you a very short story here about the first time Zhou and I went to China for a Visit, we were walking down the street and I heard this woman yelling, I turned around and before Zhou could stop me I knocked this guy flat on his a$$, you see he hit this woman that had  yelled, I almost got arrested that day if it were not for Zhou telling the guy and the cops I didn't understand the customs and culture of China, I did have to pay a fine to the guy and the cops about 3,000 RMB, so you see I could do nothing less here for Mary, and if I did My Father would rise from his grave and kick my A$$.
So thank you but as I said I could do no less then I am doing.

[raymond-]

glad to hear that the situation is improving. it must have been extremely tough to go through

[MLM]

Raymond, I don't think I could do it in her place, she went through this for 18 months.
Thanks for your post.

[MLM]

Okay Arnold, I can take a hint, I'll shut up for a while.




:icon_cheesygrin:

[victor-hills]

Michael your a top man in my books theres not meny guys that done as much as you have good on you mate.

[MLM]

I know "BUT" couldn't resist :icon_biggrin:

[MLM]

Hello all, it seems that every thing is going well, Mary still wants a divorice and has even signed the papers on Frtday morning and they were delivered to the court house by Friday afternoon, and guess who the lawyer hired to serve the papers to her husband?, ( yeah, ME, Hehehe ), so I will be doing this as soon as the are servable, maybe Tuesday or Wednesday, can't wait to see the look on his face.
Mary doesn't need the pain killers any more so sometimes Mie says she is very grumpy and I can understand this and allow for this, anyway, she seems to have a fan club here, as in Mie says that she had brought her son weth her one day and he feel in love with Mary and now brings some of his friends around to " Help " her with getting drinks or something to eat, oh they are all about 9 to 11 years old, Mary thinks its cute so do I and it gives Mie some extra help around the hotel but most of the time Mie stays with Mary 24/7.
Mary asked when Zhou will be home and I told her 1 week after her casts come off, she wanted to know because she wants to start working.
Mary is at the point where she wants to say bad things about her Husband but says ity is not the way she was raised, so in her words this is what she said, " I am not raised to say bad things about people so I will say nothing about that Bastard ".
I thought for some reason that this was very funny and started laughing and the next thing I know we are all laughing and Mary had this shy smile on her face along with a red face.
Okay thats all I can remember for now so bye for now or until Arnold says I can post an other update.

[MLM]

Arnold, I have come to realize that the word civilized means that our weapons can cause more damage, that we are supposed to act better then a cave man and that some of the people in the world cannot seem to pull themselves out of the iron age, but yeah your right, children do and say the damnest things, and some times many of the adults could learn from them.
Mary has a bunch of little guys that would do anything for her, and she to this day confusses me and some of my friends, male and female about her age, she was born on Dec. 27, and when we celabrate it she is 40 this year, in Jan. she will say she is 41 years old (?), but her passport says she is 39 years old, Hahaha, so we tell her she is somewhere between 39 and 41, sometimes its just easier to wait until January, thank god Zhous is easy and she understands our way of counting our ageSay Arnold tell Martin for me that I said, " Plaaattzzzsssss " I think thats how you spell that rasberry sound. :icon_cheesygrin:

[David5o]

Michael,

Is Mary married to an American, or a Chinese guy?? I've tried going back over the thread and if it's mentioned, i haven't seen it  haha!!..  

In Asia, it's common to say at birth, there 1 yr old. That's very common in Korea, and parts of China too But on all official documents they count from birth as we do. So officially on her birthday she will be 40, but she has grown up adding that extra year, so she will say she is 41 ...haha!!  Bloody confussing I know!!

David.....

[David5o]

Arnold,

You WISH!!............... but then again,  that's clasifies as official counting.... see thay GOT you again!!

Ya just can't win mate!!

[MLM]

Hi David, she is married to an American, I'm sorry to say.
Every time I try to make sense of the age thing I get a head ache.

Arnold, more like sticking your tounge out and blowing air out, you know making rassberry sound, or the one your thinking of will do if he'll listen, well maybe he will, we are talking about a dumpling here. :icon_biggrin:

[Martin]

mmmmmmmmmm.......dumplings

[Arnold]

mmmmmmmmmm.......dumplings

Martin , I bet a dozen Dumpling's , that you call Allison " My little Dumpling " now . Don't tell me NO , I know you too well .

[Peter]

He also call his wife "My little Dumpling"....:icon_cheesygrin:

[David5o]

Michael,

I think you'll find i'm right about the age thing, It is this birth thing, saying that there one year old at birth.
Can't tell you how many times that's cropped up when i've been conducting interviews, hiring local Engineers in and around Asia. It's really very common, especially so in Korea.

There's one or two other age abnommilies in China too, but that's another story ....haha!!

David.....