When You know it is just right

[brett]

When your lady is busy and you don't QQ much it sucks. Our ladies also seem to like to take things slowly, which is not great for us North Europeans who are used to rushing around when we do stuff. The rule about getting on with your life is good :icon_cheesygrin:.

[rockycoon]

Sounds like sis is looking over Peggy's shoulder or a girlfriend. Your comments are being talked about inbetween send and recieve. But be assured they are probably good comments. You know how women yak, yak, yak
I got a cage full of chickens that do the same thing, even while their eating....

[shaun]

Yes, rock I understand. Dang those web cams, you can't see everything that is happening in the room.  You can tell when Peggy is talking with someone else.  She doesn't try and hide it.

[shaun]

Well, two things.  Plan B eliminated me.  So she was real.  Not that it really matters, Peggy is where my head is at completely.  I felt bad for both women.  One for stringing her along and for not being completely truthful with Peggy. I.E. Peggy would ask if she was the only one and I would say yes.  Well, now she really is. Maybe Plan B could tell.

Second, Peggy went to her daughters to help her through some kind of trouble with her job.  Peggy is watching the granddaughter, something she really didn't want to do for 2 weeks.  I am not sure why?

Three days ago Peggy said she would like to go get a web cam for her computer there in Shaoguan.  I suggested she not do that since she is not working but helping daughter.  I told her that I could wait to see her on camera when she got back to Shenzhen.  We talked a little more and then she asked, "do you want to see me?"  I told her yes, very much.  Then I went on to say, save your money we can see each other when you get back.

Well, I think she mis-understood and we haven't talked in 3 days.  I have sent IM's twice a day but there has been no reply.  I do not think she is even going on the computer.

I have her phone number and will call her tonight.  It will cost $1.99 a minute.  I have tried the other services that cost  $0.18 a minute but there is always a problem.

This is driving me crazy because I think she may be upset with me over a non-issue.

Shaun

[maxx]

Shaun use skype yahoo messanger eather one they are alot cheapper then 1.99 a minute.

[brett]

I think sending SMS's is expensive in China as well - my lady doesn't use them anymore, I guess she must have got a big phone bill. QQ is the way forward I think, although worryingly my lady has reported that she sometimes doesn't see that I am online even when I am. This might explain some days when we don't speak.

[RobertBfrom aust]

Shaun , when she asked the Question you answered correctly "yes , very much ' that should have been all of your answer , simple answers from the heart are always better than confusing answers , regards Ying and Robert .

[shaun]

Shaun use skype yahoo messanger eather one they are alot cheapper then 1.99 a minute.

Maxx I have tried using yahoo messenger and it keeps telling me I need to log out but it has to be up to get to that page.  I will try it again in a few minutes because I want to talk to her very soon.

Robert,  now you tell me. :-/

[Voiceroveip]

Shaun, try Skype out, I use it all the time and it works pretty well 9 times out of 10. It costs cents per minute to a Chinese mobile.

[Vince G]

Shaun did you try,,,  http://www.rebtel.com/en/Home/

For some reason my QQ won't let me sign in? and I can't get help for I don't read CHINESE? :huh:

[shaun]

Argh!!!!!!! :icon_twisted::icon_mad::huh: Vince, I tried rebtel last week, so I tried it again per your suggestion. Finally it accepts money from me.  I get the info in.  I make the call.  It rings... and rings... and rings... and...  no answer!!!!  Argh!!!!!!!!! :icon_twisted::icon_mad::huh:

I don't think it is possible for her to know it is me, so that isn't an issue.  But it looks like all women are the same when it comes to cell phones.  They are nowhere near them when they ring.

Shaun

[Vince G]

I'd let her know I was calling on a certain number, incase? She can call you (free for her) you know?

[maxx]

in China they charge you for the calls both ways to a cell phone.If Peggy is out of the area where her simm card is from.It can get real expensive real quck.If she doesn't have the right card for the area she is in she isn't going to answer the phone.

[rockycoon]

shaun, when your babysitting, you end up with NO TIME to do anything. And I'm also thinking that the cell isn't connecting, as if your out of time or out of town, your provider might not access that area. It's a pain in the arse with cells.  Consider she might be in the house which can cut off the signal. Hell, I have Verison and am just a few miles from the tower, and it still gives crappy signals and dropped calls, so keep trying, you'll get through and I know she misses you anyway.  
Another thing, in your writings, you mentioned that she is frugal and knows how to not spend money and save.  When it comes to getting a pension or not getting a pension, I'll bet she understands that for sure. and with graduation, she being chinese, knows family comes first, so relax, your still in the game.

[shaun]

OK, so after re-inventing the wheel with ad hammer and chisel, I finally manage to get money into Rebtel. :dodgy:  I enter the number and call last night; Nothing... :@ I call this morning; Nothing except Verizon tells me that no one is answering... DUH, but it is a different response. :@ So, I start checking all the parameters... What?  There are 2 5's.  I look at number scrawled out on paper, there are not 2 5's in the number. :@:dodgy::blush: I re-enter the number and call...  No answer... I try to contact Rebtel... Can't get a response from them... I email them...  It says it may take 24 hours for a response!!!  :dodgy:

So, I wait an hour and call again...  It rings about 7 times...  then silence... I am thinking NOT AGAIN :dodgy:...  Then suddenly out of the heavens, this beautiful sexy voice says something I absolutely cannot understand...  IT'S HER!!!!!!  :icon_biggrin::icon_biggrin:  YES   YES   I have finally reached her.  My palms begin sweating and my heart is racing and I am in hog heaven...  She says something I cannot understand again... It was at this point that I realized I had said nothing at all, so I said, "Xin Jiao."  She rattled something off in Chinese and I said, "Xin Jiao,"  and she said "Shaun?"  I said yes?  She started saying something in Chinese but I definitely heard her say Shaun.  We tried talking a little.  She told me they were eating dinner.

Long story short.  She is going back to Shenzhen tomorrow and will contact me via computer when she gets there.  I said OK.  Then she said something I really needed to hear her say.  She said, "Shaun, I love you."  The words that will calm the savage beast.  All it good.  I'm happy and calm. And yes, I told her I loved her too.

Shaun