News from the front:
My future ex is in radio silence, no Internet access for the weekend, I told her to use the weekend to think it over and I expect her answers on Sunday night although quite honestly, I hope she will reach the conclusion that this will not work out by herself, I've given her many hints and actually said goodbye a couple of days ago to which she replied that she accepted my decision, but we're still talking ...
I've been busy in the meantime, regardless of what I said about not using Chnlove and focusing on cherryblossoms, I found 3 nice profiles of recent posts or refreshs, sent a few cupid notes and think I caught 2 interesting women so far, more in a my age range between 33 and 35, although only one of the three is divorced and I did not get an EMF from her yet, so I can only base my opinion on her profile and Cupid note response, the latter was really nice and personalized and came after 36 hours which tells me she actually looked at my profile, I stated in my profile I was coming in February and that was her first question, could we meet up then? She really seems to know what she wants as she fired a bunch of questions in her cupid note response which are straight to the point, I like this style much more than the vague romantic "I'm a simple Chinese girl looking for Mr. Right...". The other two are singles but speak some English, or does "Fair" mean counting to three and and saying hello? And of course they're all easily accessible from Guangzhou, although one will require a bullet train ride to Wuhan, I hope there will be tickets available in busy February.
I am applying my 5 EMF rule for direct contact, and with girl number one we're on EMF #2 and she added me to her QQ already saying she wants to webcam to see the real me. So this seems to be working well, I just casually listed my QQ number saying she could add me if she wanted to, and stating that I was not new to Chnlove and that direct contact beat any other method of communication. Girl number 2 received my QQ number in my first EMF, she's the one with the precise cupid note response, I'm expecting her response tomorrow.
Maybe there is an age factor involved as to the willingness of the ladies for direct contact, I had more trouble with younger ladies so far,it would seem that less young ones could be more in a hurry to find happiness, maybe this is not only agency related.
Cheers,
Frank
