Follow on to my last post:
Dinner turned out not to be solitary in the end, she was actually very sweet and we spent another nice evening again, Sunday morning she helped me pack and we did some late Xmas shopping in Dongmen Street and Huaqing Lou prior to a last dinner and then departure with a shuttle to Hong Kong airport. She dared to give me a hug in public, the absolute first time, and she was very happy and relaxed for our last 24 hours together, I actually enjoyed the time with her a lot, oh and she bought a gift for my son ...
All of this does not change my overall feeling though, I was going to break up with her first chance on Saturday or Sunday, now I am back in France and still haven't done that. I guess it won't hurt to wait a few days, let things settle and then trying not to break her heart . Jeff, I can't be as brutal as you, not with her as there is another side to our story which I have kept for myself on the forum, but I do have good reasons to try to be gentle. She doubts she has what it takes to be the right wife for me, I already know she doesn't but she is only realizing this now, I expect that there will be a good occasion to break up naturally during a QQ session in the next few days where we will certainly discuss these issues, maybe without hurting her too much.
As far as my trip goes, Cathay Pacific were excellent as usual even if the suitcases took 45 minutes to arrive after landing in Paris. Unfortunaltely the guy next to me had very smelly feet, I was bothered for a couple of hours until the smell faded ... then I got 6 or 7 hours fairly solid sleep so I'm actually feeling great, also happy to be home this time, no place like it, and the Internet connection is decent, boy what a change from the hotel.
So I guess I'll be off to a new ploughing and weeding session in the next few days. Should I continue on this thread or start a new one when the time comes?
Cheers,
Frank