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RE: Chengdu....The story begins...... !!!
« Reply #120 on: April 11, 2010, 08:06:20 pm »
Returning is wonderful. i remember going back to GZ the first time and it was indeed like coming back to a familiar place, a kind of home from home.The pace of the city, the things to do and see, I didn't feel so intimidated by place. Coming from a country where a skyscraper is anything over 10 stories high, GZ hit me like a run away train the first time!
Its a lovely feeling sitting in the plane, knowing what the airport is like, you know where you need to go, what you need to do, and best of all you know exactly who you are meeting and what to expect.
The wonder and trepidation of the first visit isn't there, just the wonderful feeling of joy that you are about to meet your princess again.
Have a wonderful trip and keep us updated!
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« Reply #121 on: April 12, 2010, 12:03:59 pm »
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At the moment I am shopping for some expensive lingerie for her...they cant get real authentic designer label stuff without paying an arm and a leg !!
David


So David, is there a "Made in China" on the label.  I was told by Xiuru this morning on our web cam talk, "you are not to buy me clothes as you do not understand the size".  Which is ok, as I told her, I prefer her without clothes anyway.  And she already has the "Made in China" label.    best of luck on your trip.  Will be back in country end of May.  buzz

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« Reply #122 on: April 12, 2010, 05:50:02 pm »
Hahaha Buzz

Did you not know that fancy lingerie is not to be worn....it is to be placed at the end of the bed, in case of fire !!!!!!!!!!!

Sister -in-law told me that Ming would love some genuine French or Italian lingerie, that was NOT made in China...and this is how it began.

Now, I dont have any problem shopping for a new power drill, or radial arm drop saw .......but I never knew how complex it was to buy female undies. After all, we Men got it easy...one size fits all !!!

I am told that I need to know 8 different measurements before they can get it exactly right....who knows all 8 ????...not me for sure...

David

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« Reply #123 on: April 12, 2010, 06:18:38 pm »
Hoho David,

Wait til you see how many new malls they've got on Orchard Road! It almost seems that the Singapore economy runs on new malls, casinos, new MRT lines, and expensive lingerie :icon_cheesygrin:

Would be great to meet you here, I see ETA has been delayed 3 days? Well, Dave C is leaving today.

Cya later,
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« Reply #124 on: April 12, 2010, 06:50:29 pm »
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Hoho David,

Wait til you see how many new malls they've got on Orchard Road! It almost seems that the Singapore economy runs on new malls, casinos, new MRT lines, and expensive lingerie :icon_cheesygrin:

Would be great to meet you here, I see ETA has been delayed 3 days? Well, Dave C is leaving today.

Cya later,
Larry


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Do you want to catch up on Saturday 17th ??

We are staying at the Orchard Hotel....maybe have dinner or something ??.....I would like to find a good Malaysian Restaraunt...promised Ming she could try Nasi Lemak !!!...(and Gula Malacca)

David
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« Reply #125 on: April 12, 2010, 07:03:43 pm »
Could be worse David..... could be all one size...TENT SIZE...HAHAHA

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« Reply #126 on: April 12, 2010, 07:32:41 pm »
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I am told that I need to know 8 different measurements before they can get it exactly right....who knows all 8 ????...not me for sure...

David


This is the fun part.  Go to a Victoria Secret Store.  Pick out the best dressed lady in the store.  ( one that works there is best)  Then just tell her what you want.  Point to the other customers in the store and say, she is that tall,  find one whose legs are similar, body frame, hair, arms, and such.  before you know it, you will have the whole store involved in your project and you will have the time of your life. ( in a store that is)  So just take a deep breath and walk right in,  the second and third time you do this, you will be a seasond veteran.   Now send a picture of the cloth and if you figure out the 8 measurements, please share both.  buzz

Or you could ask on the ladies post on this forum for help.  but i prefer the "hands on" approach.

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« Reply #127 on: April 13, 2010, 11:10:54 am »
David,

I hope the trip exceeds your expectations.

Shaun

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« Reply #128 on: April 13, 2010, 12:41:34 pm »
Mate although I have only been once...I am sure this trip WILL exceed everything you are looking forward too..Good luck my friend.

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« Reply #129 on: April 13, 2010, 05:25:14 pm »
David, I hope you have a great and memorable trip.  Every time I read your thoughts it brought back mine at that time in my relationship with Gina..   It sounds like you got a good one. And those of us who have been fortunate are waiting for you to join the married ranks. Good on ya mate.  Your trip is just beginning now.  Am really happy for you.
Oh and the baby issue is not dead, dont for a minute believe it is.  it is a scary thought and I never thought I would try for another child but she has me convinced now that it is the right thing to do.  You will probably cave in to, because these women are not to be denied.   Have a safe trip.
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« Reply #130 on: April 13, 2010, 06:41:07 pm »
Jim...(and all)

Thanks for your good wishes, I know this trip will be even better !!

Jim, I am getting the constant (but oh so subtle) messages about having another kid.....so far I have skillfully avoided a "yes or no" response, but I know full well that I must soon deal with this very important aspect of our relationship.

I know that Ming regards having a child together as something perfectly normal, natural and ineveitable !!....but it was never in my mind to go down this track...until now !!!!

As I said before, I could get sneaky and go and get the "snip" and thus fix the whole problem...but I shy away from such a deception...I need to deal with it "head-on".

I am wondering what would be the consequences if I said an emphatic "No"............anyone got any advice ?? I'm a bit out of my depth with this one :huh::huh:

David

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« Reply #131 on: April 15, 2010, 01:40:04 pm »
matter of opinion David5o  im only 54 and if my wife could have children i would.
all just a matter of opinion and individual desires and wants

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« Reply #132 on: April 25, 2010, 09:18:22 pm »
Monday 26th...back home again after my second visit !!!

Ming and I met up in Singapore, she had never been out of China and was very excited to be going to a foreign country. She was a bit intimidated by the prospect of all the rigmarole to go through on her own, but many detailed briefings on QQ seemed to do the trick and she made it Ok.

She was quite a celebrity on her flight, because the Singapore Immigration Forms had to be filled in in English. She had a queue of about 30 people wanting her help with the forms !!

How great it was to meet again, all the emotion and affection was still there and we were like a couple of teenagers !!!

For 3 days we did all the touristy things and my credit card got a hammering as I expected...but this Lady spoils me in so many ways it was a pleasure to do something in return for her, so she got a load of western clothes, shoes, bags and cosmetics. Normally I hate shopping but this was so different, it really was fun and we had a lot of laughs.

She was so taken with all the Lao Wei's in Singapore, she had never before seen a Muslim Woman all covered up, or and African/American, only in the movies, and she was fascinated by blonde women !!

She just wanted to sit on a bench and watch the World go by...she seemed to think that I could instantly recognise every persons ethnicity, so had to make up lots of stories on the spot !!!

She was keen to try many different Western foods, and we did the lot...including Pizza !! But I was tickled to discover that her favourites were smoked salmon, Wasabi , croissants and cheese and Chocolate Mousse....for breakfast....YUK !!!

After "doing" Singapore, we tracked off to Chengdu and I splurged on an upgrade to Business Class for us...that was special and we "lorded" it up for a few hours on the plane. I get a lot of pleasure from her sheer delight in all these new experiences....does my heart good !!

We had no problem with language, her English has really improved with the many hours we spent on QQ and learning English. Again, I am totally impressed at the way she has learned so much...what a woman.

Chengdu was an endless eat-through with the family, lunches and dinners every day, Mahjong sessions for tiny money and a lot of scotch drunk with her Dad and her Uncles. Dad and Mum have learned a few words of English, but we still manage to converse in a mixture of English, Russian and Chinese. I must admit I have been forced to unlearn my Chinese, because the Chengdu dialect is totally different to what I had spent a lot of time learning.

On another note...I was very close to settlement on an apartment, with Ming as the owner and me as an "interested party", but the recent moves by the Chinese Govt about property purchases made me realise I might be buying at the top of the market..not a good place to be !!. So at the eleventh hour, Brother in law was able to get me out of the deal....I am sure he greased a plam or two, but now I will wait for a little while because property prices are tipped to fall up to 20% in the coming months.

So in summary Guys...a delightful second visit which completely reinforces what a treasure I have found...we both look forwrad to the future with great excitement and anticipation.

A few photos for you all are attached.

Cheers

David

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« Reply #133 on: April 25, 2010, 09:34:43 pm »
David,

It does my heart good to see the two of you enjoying each other so much.  I am happy for you.  May the joy that the two of you feel grow to greater heights in the future.

So glad you had a wonderful trip.

Shaun

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« Reply #134 on: April 25, 2010, 09:40:29 pm »
DavidE,

You're spoiling her !!!  With you, Ming has the world at her feet. All her friends are/will be jealous after hearing about this recent trip. Ming has found a jewel to take care of her for the rest of her life.

But I can't blame you because I do the same for my wife. Sometimes I have to stand back for a minute and think to myself ... Don't spoil her too much, she's always going to expect it.

Glad you had a fun time.