Ted, you're talking about Chnlove loosing women to other sites? Obviously this double sided service and translation fee system will push many to seek other solutions, on both sides. I think many of the agencies don't post all the ladies on Chnlove, I know the agency I used in Shenzhen doesn't, they have plenty of other profiles up their sleeve, including the 2 that I will meet and which I've never seen online on the 4 sites I know or use from time to time (chineselovelinks, cherryblossoms, chnlove and since very recently eastloving). But Chnlove make money through EMF credits, they have to push the system as hard as possible. Fortunately the agencies mostly work for their women who are their key customers, EMF revenue is fairly small for them. So when they sense that they might make a customer unhappy (losing the laowai contact), they open up.
However, I have to say that of the 4 ladies I have been writing to initially since about a week, I have 3 on QQ ... two after 2 EMFs, another after only 3, the last one should appear this weekend (4 EMFs so far). So somehow things are more relaxed compared to September where I struggled and gave up certain contacts simply for that reason. Or maybe it's just a coincidence? Or maybe they read this forum? Hehe HELLO! Or maybe my profile was tagged "watch out for this guy, he means business!" ?? I did write to customer service quite a bit in the fall ...
Frank
