There's good and bad everywhere, the good are not just based in China. You only need to read around this Forum to realise that little fact....
I was married to a perfect woman (for me) for 20 years before she passed away, and she was from my own country England. Now i have a perfect woman again, who happens to be Chinese. She's different to my ex-wife in many ways, but no more, and no less perfect.
A lot of this stuff we get on here about women from our own countries, being inferior to those in China is i think basically based on guy's going through particularly bad divorces, then stereotyping all home based women in the same category. Let's also face the fact, that the women and type of women you were attracted too in your own country, were your own choices. so you can't stack ALL the blame on to them....
I've probably lived and worked in more countries than most on this Forum, and i can tell you, there are countries in this world, that have just as good women, as they have in China. You could find your perfect woman anywhere in this world, they are diverse as us men, .....Now your not going to tell me that were all perfect, ....Are you??
If your not interested in women from your own country anymore, fine. Now your going along on your own journey to find a Chinese wife. Why do you still find the need to rubbish the women your leaving behind....
David.....
Did someone hit a nerve here? Do we all try to talk nothing but rubbish about Western women? I don't think so. OK, let´s get it over with: Yes, there are beautiful and wonderful women all over the world, of all ethnic groups, of all religions. Was that good enough?
But remember that you are on a
CHINA LOVE forum for men seeking future Chinese partners, it tend to be pretty romanticizing about Chinese women. With good reason. I can only speak for myself, but I am not here to discuss the glory of Swedish, English, American or Australian women. I am here to discuss and learn more about Chinese women.
We all have our reasons for being here. Personally I have been increasingly interested in China since I first visited the country in 2005. Suddenly I have also developed a great love for Asian women that I did not have, or realized I had, before. This can't be helped, I am simply not physically attracted to Western women anymore like I used to be. It's been frustrating because there are not that many Asian women around here.
Yes, there are great women all over the world, not just in China. Of course. But if I compare the demands of Swedish women to those of Chinese women, I can see the difference. A lot of Swedish women (at least in my age) have incredible demands. I have never ever seen a young Swedish woman on a dating site saying that her dream is to find an honest, responsible husband who will treat her well. No, they will go on about sexual performance, looks and money. Again, this doesn't mean every single woman between 20 and 30 is like that. But many of them undoubtedly are.
And, if I want to live in China in the future, finding a Chinese girl to marry is a pretty logic move...