Matthi , by your " Hallo " ... I would not be surprised your either German , Austrian or Swiss ... right ?
Welcome here , and first , Martin is not a God , Neil try'd to say MOD . If he was a God , he would be in China right now with his Zhifang .
Second , he could send me over there too , to be with my Wife .
Like Martin said though , think it over carefully ... if it is right for you ? What he did not mention , is the waiting period's we all have to go through , to be with our Lady's / Wife's . One could cry ... forget could ... you will . But at the end , it's all worth it . Some of us here know this to be true , first hand !