Hi Yan,
I am Chinese therefore not suitable for you, haha...
Napoleon said : If you want a thing done well, do it yourself.
I have 2 suggestions, how you can help yourself :
1) I find CLL a good place, at least for guys, and many brothers here also found their lovers there, anyway better than CHN because there is no inteference from agencies & translators. Your English is better than average, so you should do well there. Of course you must find out for yourself who are good or bad men, nobody else can do it for you, not agencies or translators.
2) I have met many good lady friends in China who worked in jobs that give opportunities to meet foreigners. What is your work? I find a job like hotel staff, translator, tour guide (English speaking) both give you money and also let you meet foreign men (haha side benefit). The best, if you have the skills, is being a factor/factotum.... you make a lot of money, AND meet rich businessmen !!! :icon_cheesygrin: I knew one such girl, too bad she had already found a "gwailo"/"laowai" hahaha. Another is teaching Chinese to laowais, but the pay may be low, and I am not sure who you will meet, but then "life is a box of chocolates, never know what you're gonna get". :dodgy::angel: