Vince
You are not leaning too hard. Pictures and all you are simply aggressively expressing a point of view.
This is fine.
My point is simple, if you start lumping people together, whether Haiti, the Bronx, China or wherever, you are going to have a problem. Because If you are to say all Haitians are this way or that way, then that would mean you have either met all Haitians - or you are God.
I understand your frustrations with the immigration system. Trust me, I wish, as a country we would not have to take one year or more to get our wives and love ones from China VISAs. Especially since some other countries take about 3 months.
On the other hand, you and I are fortunate, because with relative ease we can get a VISA to China or anywhere else for that matter. Why? Not because you are I are such great people. We simply happen to be born and or citizens of the US.
Most of the Haitians you are talking about have about as much influence over their government, as you or I, when it comes to changing our country's policy on extending VISAs to our love ones from China - little or none.
I am not a preacher. In fact, the Church doors would probably buckle as I approached them. I am a full fledged capitalist that see great merit in the game "QQ Garden" that so many people in China play. But I know with great blessings come great responsibility.
Think about it. The same things have been said about "Little Italy, "Chinatown", on and on. It seems to me through your posts you are way too bright to buy into this - all those folks crap.
If you have not gone to China - by the looks of things - soon you will be in China. Looking at in your opinion the most beautiful and sexiest woman you have ever seen. While you are looking at your future wife, think about it, some fool there will be looking at you. Saying what the hell is our beautiful woman, doing with an "a.. hole" like you? Surely she could find better in this great land of ours. As this fool passes you and your lady by, your lady will simply look at you smile, and hold your hand even tighter. Because she knows that some may think you are this way or that way. But to her she knows..to her you are her umbrella, you are solid as a rock.