JimB,
Why do you say that being invited to stay at the ladies house should be treated with caution??
I know what you say here and understand that your wife is traditional, but there are many good ladies out there, where that wouldn't be a problem for them, especially if through these EMF's she finds that she can trust him (Falcon). It really doesn't matter if she will invite him to her bed or not, at the very least he will have a unique opportunity in knowing her far more intimately than staying at a Hotel and having to make daily arrangements for meeting her.
As i said, not all women over 40 are as traditional as your good wife, but it doesn't make them any the less a good honest and loving woman. Over my years in China, i actually came accross more women over 40 like this, than those that were as traditional as your wife. If they trust you, (for what ever reason) then they are prepared to take that chance with you. So, i think there is a very good chance that Falcon, has in some way through his EMF's with her shown her, that he is a man to be trusted.
Let him find out for himself, he seems very keen on this lady. If it doesn't go as he planned or hoped then he can move out of her home to a hotel anytime he likes...... All the other stuff can be sorted out while he's there. Who's knows what's going on, it could be all down to the translator, or the lady not having any experience with computers, or just being nervous of saying something wrong and fearing he will change his mind about coming to visit her.... So many factors to take account of, but all can be sorted when face to face in a real time environment....
David.....