All this talk has given me an idea to try with reguards to my profile there, should things not work out with my lady when we meet later next month. Being on another thread lastnight, I think it was a link that Vince put in a post, and the thread was What the Chinese Women Are Saying About Westerners, gave me the idea to put up a profile that just lays down the law with reguards to personal e=mails, phone calls, web cam chats... "don't bother responding if you have no intensionn of exchanging these things by..." or " If buy the 10th EMF you don't / won't start communicating by these personal ways..." I thought maybe just lay conditions like this right down in your profile and see what happens when you then request for the more personal exchange. Rather than having to send an EMF that makes you sound cruel or harsh. I would thing that the woman reading a profile like that would see you don't want to be jerked around and put you in a better light, so to speak. Maybe the "scamming" translators or agencies would pass over a profile that read like that. But then again they may think a couple more EMF's...
Dave C
