there is a big difference with being kind hearted and stupid. i think
she is hoping that you will be stupid enough to take her up on her
offer. and also support her when she gets there probably until she
could find someone else.
Well, she might get a small amount of money from me, but she will not be coming back here. If she really did lose her job, then the problem is that her plan backfired on her, and now I am the escape plan-it isn't about wanting to live here, or live here with me. And I've moved on, anyway. I don't want to talk bad about her, but she has some problems, and the most I'll be is a friend from 1,600 miles away. She'll never be happy here, because she'll never be happy. Like the majority of western women, she doesn't know what she wants, and when she gets what she thinks she wants, she decides she wants something different. I can't say I don't still care about her, which is why I'll send a bit of money to help her out, but that is as far as I can go with her now.