it is great to hear her voice though right Roy? and the
bf/gf role is kind of a cute thing as i remember when that
happened and i thought to myself that this hasnt happened
since high school which i thought was cute
Yes, it is wonderful to hear her voice. Especially this last call, she sang a couple of songs to me, lol, one chinese and a couple in english. Of course, she then wanted me to sing to her! Yeah, the whole bf/gf thing is cute, and she is a very romantic woman.
A couple of weeks ago I told her I was running out of credits for the emfs, and suggested we get beyond using the agency and get to im/webcam/voice chat or private email-even if it was the agency email. She said she'd have to find a translator, which kinda makes me wonder. I wrote back and said I didn't want her to have to spend any money for translation services, that I'd go ahead and get some more credits-and she told me NOT to buy any more credits, she'd find a translator this weekend and write me at my private email address, she wanted to help me save money. She says she doesn't have a computer, but she's saving up for one. I dunno, this has all kinda sent some mixed signals.
I really am not sure why she has to find a translator if she is going to use the agency controlled email, which everyone here says all the ladies have. With the first woman I wrote at chnlove, it was all done through personal email with the agency translator doing the translations-or so she told me. I do know Xin's best friend married a westerner and lives in Nevada now, so I am wondering if she is going to ask her to help maybe.
If she doesn't have a computer, is she using an internet cafe? She hasn't answered that. I've suggested the webcam/video chat thing a few times, and she's never responded to that. This stuff doesn't add up-unless there is agency interference going on here of some sort. And as I say, we do talk on the phone once a week right now, for over an hour usually, and we teach each other our languages (plus now we sing to each other, lol) so that tells me she is interested still. She never blows me off or gives me an excuse why she has to go, I am always the one who has the end the call.
So right now I am waiting to her from her in my personal email. I still have a few credits left to write her if I don't hear from her reasonably soon, plus I have her phone #, and I can get some more credits with no problem.