well yet again almost made it let me give you my insight .
Back in march 2009 i built a up a very strong relationship with a lady from WUHAN , she was very beautiful so in september of 2009 i packed my bags and headed of to china ,
WOW what a good time we had everything spoken between each other and our asperations was coming true , BUT whislt enjoying our time together, i asked about visiting the family or inviting them for dinner ,guess what the family decided they did not want my girl having a relationship with a foreigner, a complete reversal from what they told me however i came home from great trip to wuhan to reminis on my experiance .
ok well i dusted myself down and built up anouther relationship
this time with a lady from changsha hunan province but this time making sure the family would accept me i did not want
to be disapointed again ,and to my surprice everything was fine the parents wanted to meet me as did all heir family and freind including heir boss at work , wow i thought this is it
so of i went to changsha for the spring festival in feb 2010
you no everything went perfect the family loved me, heir boss loved me, heir son was over the moon with our relationship ,and heir parents gave their blesing to , so i returned home to start preperations to get married and retrun to changhsa this august , then the bombshell droped
i asked in a email to heir would heir pension be safe ?
and the anser was no, i asked my girl speak to heir parents which she did the outcome ,she was staying in china to draw heir pension which would be 55yrs old as she was 47 it was a little away as for the chance of me getting a job and moving to changsha was remote because of my launguage problem
this relationship as come to a end also ...
talk about a rollercoster ride and what it as done to my heart
so it seems i will have to move on again
i wanted to share my experiances with you all
will my dream ever come true ?
it will be good to get all your feed back as for my second relationship i wish i could save it but i do not no how ?
or should i just move on
WILL MY CHINESE DREAM COME TRUE :icon_cry::icon_confused::icon