What is a "Traditional Chinese Woman/Lady"?

[Martin]

Irishman...I think you nailed one with your last post.  Filial affection is all important.  Like you said, once you are accepted into the family, you are one with them...it doesn't matter what part of the world you come from.

[Jimmy]

My wife is also very traditional Chinese woman. Maybe team it with the phrase old school. That may make more sense for you.
And being part of the family. It is just that. It was a little rough at first.
But now I would have it no other way.
In fact they are all not happy i must go back to the US in a few days.
They are already getting ready for me to come back in June and stay all summer.
Life is good right now.
Nothing lasts forever, But I hope this will get close.
Anyone around Harbin. I be here a few more days.

[ttwjr32]

being familiar with the clearlake area in california i am sure
 that when you take your wife there to live she will enjoy the
 area as she is living there.

[jeffm]

Above  all else know that some will use the "tradional Chinese woman" as a feather in their cap so to speak.  Watch what they do not what they say.

[David5o]

Jeff,


Now Ain't that the ''Truth''!!!! .....And that must go especially for all those young Chinese Princesses. ....hahaha!!!

David.....

[jeffm]

Jeff,


Now Ain't that the ''Truth''!!!! .....And that must go especially for all those young Chinese Princesses. ....hahaha!!!

David.....

lol. You got it.  I have a new thread I'm going to start kind of regarding this.

[shaun]

I think Peggy is traditional but I am not completely sure.  She is modern in some of her thinking but she carries a lot of the old values.  The funny thing is that she is now calling me a Chinese-America man.  I think it is cute.

Is there a quicker way to get her here?

[ttwjr32]

Shaun,

go thru the right channels to get her there. if you start with the visitor,employment
visa's it is not going to work based on what i know of the circumstances.  if you start
these kind of other ways when there turned down there is a direct reflection and
probable denial when you do the k/1 k/3 visa's  BE CAREFUL my friend i know what
your going thru and your desire to be together NOW but dont jeopordize something
that could happen down the road with trying to do other avenues. so the quickest
and proper way that will go smoothly is k-1 or k-3   get the papers going as fast as
you can and DONT FORGET---- make a copy of everything you turn in or mail

Ted

[shaun]

Ted,

Thanks,  that last comment was sort of tongue in cheek.  I know the right way is the only way.  I was trying to say I really miss her.  I often ponder going back to China and staying with her until she gets her visa.  Work wise I would only loose a little seniority but could still keep my retirement.  I could go back and finish it off at 60.

I am trying to pull it together to go back in July and spend 3 or 4 weeks there.  I want to go to Guangzhou and try to nail this clothing manufacturing down and them maybe we can talk about the other ideas you mentioned to me.

I am trying to figure it out.  More later.

Shaun