are there women looking for meal tickets---SURE are there princesses--- ABSOLUTELY but as it has been
said there are those everywhere and in every country. to paint the whole picture black is just pure wrong.
and when it doesnt work absolutely it is on both parties whether the language barrier or even the expectations
from one or both parties.
but i would think if you wanted to generalize something and put a lot of blame on why many dont work WHAT
about the agencies themselves?? wouldnt you think if you actually fish boned the problem and picked it apart
then i would think a lot falls on the AGENCIES and the TRANSLATORS that are employed by them. and i would
suspect and fully assume that they do not act on their own as one is told when they get caught with their pants
down. the agency will tell you that the translator will be dealt with yea right probably told to be more careful
next time. what about the women who are on some agencies that are just PICS and nothing else. so i think the root
cause of most of these bad tastes that people get are generated by the AGENCIES and not the actual women themselves
and as far as looking for a BETTER LIFE ------ arent we all doing that?
? living here and working here i see the
discrimination all the time so what choices do they have but to search and try to find a better LIFE and a LOVE of
their life outside the country. i dont think they should be put down for that.
sometimes i believe that when people start this journey they dont think about all the SACRIFICES that are needed to
be done to make it succeed and when you dont have that open mind and are willing to SACRIFICE yourself then right
away it becomes the womens fault and she is the problem. the bar of expectations should be set so that BOTH parties
SACRIFICE in the journey. WHEN you DONT do that then you get the close minded comments that the women are
golddiggers or just want this and that never does that person look at themselves and say WOW maybe i should have
done something different. they just throw the blame at the opposing person.
PATIENCE, UNDERSTANDING, SACRIFICES are what is needed to make this a successful journey!!!
for all the new ones starting remember this at all times and you will be fine!!!!!