Wilson, I like your concept......it seems like a big task lies before your group. I hope you can make it work because the competition will be good for everyone.
Assign a Quality Control Director, or task one of your Customer Support Team to conduct random "Quality Control Interviews" with selected women from the agencies. Perform occasional message verification by phone or in person. Not everyone is going to do the Web Cam option and agencies can still churn away $4 messages unnoticed (on their ladies behalf).
About your site...I would like to offer some input on the layout and how you're doing things. Please don't take offense none is meant. If you were my client (I'm not asking you to be) these are the things I would suggest you change.
1. The home page header has waaaaay too much wasted space. The header layout is unrealistic and you're forcing the audience to scroll to see anything. Even on subsequent pages the header region is still far too large. You're page should fit within in a screen at common resolutions if at all possible. I mocked up a page for you to look at:
Page with short header2. Pricing is hard to find, If potential customers can't find the pricing easily they will leave...it sends the wrong message. I had to drill down 2-3 times to see the pricing. Nobody expects this to be a free service so don't hide the price structure.
3. Home page fluff...people are coming to the site to find a Chinese wife. Do you provide what they are looking? What will it cost them? If you answer those two questions immediately you should substantially cut down the bounce rate of your site and more people will stay to browse. Your company name, Your logo, The philosophy statement, value statements, etc are all incidental, yes they are very important in the grand scheme of things but...you really want to get to the heart of this immediately. I personally would begin showing the women on the home page. Discuss Mission and Integrity on the "About Us" page
4. Let people browse profiles for free, present some "Loss Leaders" in the form of Discounted Memberships, Free Credit Giveaways, First Message Free, etc..(they have to register to get those deals)...welcome customers into your system. Don't nag them to sign up in the first minute, you will run a lot of business off that way.It was not very inviting (or clever) to have the womans profile overtaken by a nag screen almost immediately. Let them browse for free and give them a reason to sign up. Give them a reason to keep coming back. Why do car dealerships let customers drive new cars home, because after they've driven the new car for a while there is no way they'll go back. The sale has already been made.
5. Feature your strong points, what sets your service apart from all the other sites out there ... Embed a video of a sample webcam session on the home page, show clients (with their permission) engaged in a webcam session. Illustrate this honest difference point and you should win people over.
Good Luck with the project!