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Bee964:
Axiom,

"I would have lived my life differently if I would have known what I know now." How many times have you heard someone say this? David5o has given you some real good advise. You should think about it at least. I am not trying to tell you what to do, just to think about his advise.

Dave C

Axiom:
The thing is... and I dont want to turn this into a Western woman bash.. but Ting is a woman I have been looking for and we fit together like taxes and government. Some of this is stuff you wouldnt know unless you knew me personally, but I have a BLACK sense of humor. I like to talk about things like the nature of good/evil and our personal role in the greater world. Really deep thoughts, but Ting matches me thought for thought and inputs a lot of great insight of her own (someone said in this thread she is a woman who knows what she wants and I couldnt agree more)... The most in depth conversation I have had with western women I have dated in teh past were about "Gossip Girls" or Beyonces new album (which I think is complete crap but I digress).

That is one of the reasons I came to this site, because I can voice my opinion about why I cant get excited about dating western women and not get ridiculed for it. My friends have told me everything from "she's just using you for a VISA" to "Why would you want a mail order bride?". I have thought a lot about David5o's advice, but I also know in my heart I will never meet another one like her. So do I pass her by, finish school and maybe on the off chance meet some one else who compliments me just as well? or stick with her knowing I might be missing out on some things but knowing I have someone who really TRULY loves me?

I think life is about choices, some good some bad. While I might just have the "rose colored glasses" on, I still think she is worth the sacrifices i'll have to make. :)

Lee357:
Then my friend you have made the correct decision. You have made your own decision. That alone makes it correct. Now how it turns out in the fullness of time may make you regret the choice you made. But what the hell. i think i can say with a certain amount of surety that there is not one man on this site that has not made a decision he wishes he would have done differently. at least once in our life. So you have decided. Now go out there and enjoy it. Make the very best you can with the choice you have made.

Axiom:
I hope so!

I just reread what I wrote and it sounded kind of mean and snooty... which wasn't my intention!  Specially from someone coming to these forums asking for assistance on the Chinese woman's frame of mind! I just like the fact she knows what she wants.. as do i... which is one of the things that attracted us to each other.

Again my apologies

Bee964:
Axiom,

I don't think what you said sounded "snooty". If you two compliment each other well and that is your decision then so be it. We will all respect your decision. I think that Lee357 says it all, "Make the very best you can with the choice you have made".

Dave C

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