Jeff,
I just can't believe you have been corresponding with this girl for almost a year without her sending you numerous red flags. These sort of ladies try and hook on to you pretty quickly and start laying down what you have to do to keep her, as soon as she's confident you've been hooked!!!
Jeff, you only have to read around this Forum to realise that this girl isn't the norm!! So if your going back into the fray, ...don't pick on these young Hot chicks cause there not as hot as you would want them to be anyway. There just bad news all round...
There are plenty of ladies on CL and elsewhere that are in your age group, and in many cases can knock some of these young ''I wants'' into a cocked hat, and can give them a bloody good run for there money in the looks dept, if that's important to you, or what your looking for.
Best of luck to you, but for god's sake , next time be aware when Red Flags are shown to you, and don't just dismiss them...
David....