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Chinese Girl Writing About Chinese Girls
David5o:
--- Quote from: David5o on June 07, 2010, 05:25:20 pm ---Ted,
At the moment, the best it can do, ....is to confirm the obvious!!
...Give the site time, and it may mature into a good insight to ALL Chinese women. But at the moment, it doesn't come anywhere near close....
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Ted,
Starting out, or experienced, There is very little information on this site to help anyone at the moment!!! Which is basically what i said in the above quote to your previous reply.
If you read through this site yourself you will find that even one of the guests on the site, ...commented along similar lines, calling her topic blogs ''Lame''and without content!!!
I'm not trying to stop anyone going to this site Ted, I'm just giving my opinion on the site, based on what i've read there. I'll go back there again later on, and see how things are progressing, ...After all she only started this site in January of this year, she may need a little more time to pull things together. She's only young herself going by her site photo's....
David....
Hans:
--- Quote from: shaun on June 07, 2010, 04:57:22 pm ---For example: That first day Peggy could not get over how hairy my arms are. Later I took my shirt off (don't get the wrong idea) and she could not believe how hairy my chest was. I asked her if it was a problem and she said no but you could see that she wasn't sure what to think. I told her two things. 1. God put it there for women to play with. (she got quite a chuckle out of that) 2. The hair that fell off my head needed to go somewhere.
Needless to say after a 3 or 4 days she didn't think anything about it... so to speak. Ah... hem. Never mind. I took the article about hair to mean that most women do not like hair on men so much.
I also asked her if she wanted me to shave it off. She said no.
Shaun
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Interesting! :D I don't know what the general idea about this is among Chinese women (if it exists), but my lady doesn't like beard. I have a very hard beard (it's almost like sandpaper) and have to shave at least once a day to keep clean. When I kissed her neck she complained a bit about it (partly because she was nervous, I think). On hair in general I like to keep a clean shave pretty much all over so I guess she wouldn't have to worry about it too much...
I think the blog tells us something of one Chinese girl's view on Western men, though. I asked my lady early on why she was looking for a foreign man and she told me that she thought Chinese were chauvinistic and too traditional in their view on the role of women and men in a relationship. At the same time she is not a feminist which I, living in the feminist center of Earth (Sweden), find very relieving. When I told her I like to cook she was delighted, this was certainly nothing she expected. So I guess for a modern Western man just being who we are may give us some +++ over many Chinese men. I'm behind on the gym part, though... :-[
Crystal Tao:
You won, David !
Everybody, including myself is persuaded that my blog is anything but informative (and lame ;D )...
Hello, everyone. Let me introduce myself. My name is Crystal Tao and I am the author of LoveLoveChina - the blog discussed in this thread. Yesterday I tracked some of the visits to my site coming from this forum, and so I am here to say "Hi".
First of all, I am very happy to read this thread - since it is an excellent opportunity to get some objective (at least until I appeared here ;) ) feedback to my writing.
I should admit that my blog is far from being an in-depth research on any given topic. But actually I have never set up such a goal. Not being a psychologist, or sociologist, and given a short format of my posts - I am writing little "how-to..." and "why..." articles which can be defined as "tutorials for beginners". I am sure that in the wide range of resources that can be found on internet there is a legitimate place for a blog of this kind as well. In fact, the mainly positive feedback of my little, but loyal readership stimulates me to continue writing.
But, of course, I want to learn and improve. And I am very grateful to readers who leave comments on my blog enrichening its contents. I want to use an opportunity to invite the members of this forum to share their perspective on the pages of my blog by leaving their comments (or - if interested - even submitting guest post to give a different perspective; to do that you can visit "About" page on my site).
In fact, right now I am doing a little research about the traits of online dating among Chinese women. There is a chance that when I publish the results - even David would like that article, and since he granted me a chance to become more "mature" - I promise to come here again and tell you when the article is ready.
In conclusion, I do want to refer to comments of one guest who called my blog lame. Actually, his comments surprisingly well resonate with David's critics. One of the first articles I wrote was titled Don’t Make These Mistakes With Chinese Girls. It was a list of quite simple, not-rocket-science tips - the main idea of which can be summarized as to treat Chinese girls with respect and take in account their traditional values.
For some reason the aforementioned guest with a nickname "Booger face" wasn't happy and left the following comment:
"Crystal… Your advice is lame. It is obvious and offers no real ‘information’. I commend you on trying to run a blog but make it interesting otherwise the only people that will read this are lame ‘Oprah fans’.
I have been in China for a long time and I can assure you that there are many crazy, horny women that are ‘traditional’. They try to convince me that they are pure and innocent and that I am their uncle or big brother and within 30 minutes we are in bed having sex (or incestuous relations)..."
Well... let me state one thing very clearly! If informativeness of my blog equals to giving spicy tips on how to bed Chinese girls - then I prefer it to be lame, and will be completely happy with "Oprah fans". And to "Booger face & Co" I can advise to read other blogs, which I am sure they know better than me.
And I am really happy to join this forum - since I already can see here a lot of interesting information, which undoubtedly will help me to get new ideas and make my blog better.
Sincerely yours , Crystal Tao
David5o:
Crystal,
Wow!!! Don't you sleep at night?? or were you out on the town tonight?? I'm just a little surprised you joined/registered here at 3.30am China time!!!!
Referring to your post, ....I generally do, give most people the benifit of doubt!!
So who invited you to this Forum then Crystal??
David....
Irishman:
--- Quote from: David5o on June 08, 2010, 05:05:06 pm ---Crystal,
Wow!!! Don't you sleep at night?? or were you out on the town tonight?? I'm just a little surprised you joined/registered here at 3.30am China time!!!!
Referring to your post, ....I generally do, give most people the benifit of doubt!!
So who invited you to this Forum then Crystal??
David....
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She found it herself -
--- Quote ---Yesterday I tracked some of the visits to my site coming from this forum, and so I am here to say "Hi".
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I'm delighted to have a Chinese lady join us here and to hopefully give her input occasionally.
So a very warm welcome to you Crystal from me and I'm sure the rest of the guys here :)
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