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Passion in Interracial Relationships

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temur72:

--- Quote from: Rhonald on June 11, 2010, 12:27:33 am ---Sorry Temur - my subconscious mind never seems to shut off. Sometimes my Puns are a little inappropriate.

I do agree with your posting on Eroticism since I believe the exoticism of Asian ladies enhances the perception. I guess my imagination to the Pun was triggered by your word choice and a healthy Love life needs a sprinkling of eroticism and imagination to ignite passion.

So please excuse my tilting at windmills of my mind.

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Not a problem, I got a chuckle from it actually.

Despite what my handle seems to indicate, I am Canadian and dont mind the dirty jokes. I just missed the potential for it in my original post

Being of German/Irish descent and born and raised in Western Canada I find Asian women to be very erotic looking in general, and Asian culture (specifically Chinese) to  exotic and very interesting. I figure that should the lady I am talking to do get married eventually we will have years of learning ahead of us. Her of Canadian culture and traditions like ice skating and dealing with the cold (She is in Changsha). While I will have years of learning about Chinese culture from her. This should keep the relationship fresh and exciting for a greater period of time (I was going to say longer but that would open up another opportunity)

Rhonald:
Why did I choose a Chinese lady instead of one maybe from Japan, Thailand, or Korea? Well I do find all the Asian lands to be inhabitated by beautiful exotic ladies. Jeon Ji Hyun Tribute  Even Korean girls. But I also choose to have a lady that I could introduce to friends of mine that could help her with cultural shock. I do have a few close friends that have immigrated from China. Thus I trod to China on my soles to search for my soul mate.

I have often wondered why this attraction to the lands of Cathay. I remember reading fondly of Marco Polo's journey and besides the book "Dune" my other favorite books were Tolkens "The Hobbit" and "Lord of the Rings". I was always drawn to the grace, wisdom and beauty of the Silvan Elves as Tolken described. I wonder if his inspiration for Middle Earth came from the Middle Kingdom? Asian ladies share a similar grace and beauty. Their culture is a long lived and wise one. So from the lands of Cathay I found my own brown eyed elfin girl.

Crystal Tao:
I understand the point of difficulties that have to be overcome in far-distance relationships.
I myself experienced it with my boyfriend (and quite proud of how we handled it  :) ).

However, in my opinion, it also has some hidden dangers. Whenever a person "invests" a lot of energy into something (in this case relationship) - it becomes more difficult to admit a mistake. Sometimes people just don't fit each other, or for some reason it is better to both of them to separate. But if they put in too many efforts - they can develop an obsessive idea of being together in spite of anything, and sometimes just fail (or refuse) to recoginze the failure.
Sorry, if I can't express myself or sound too vague...

Arnold:

--- Quote from: Crystal Tao on June 11, 2010, 06:13:24 pm ---.Sorry, if I can't express myself or sound too vague...
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Dui bu qi ? No need for that , not everyone is great expressing Him/Herself in Word's .

Crystal , I know through my Wife .. that Chinese Men ( most well off finacially wise ) have Girlfriends on the side . Go out with them after work and then .. come home to a Wife , all this seems to be tolerated by the wife in most cases . Why is that ? My Wife's brother is a good example for this . Not that he cheat's ( sexually ) , but to be out at Dinner or Party's by himself and come home as nothing has unusual has  happened . As the wife goes and does her thing , til they meet late at home again . They of course are married over ten years now and are very happy together from what I see and hear . I ask my Wife , hence it's ok there .. if I could have three Girlfriends here in the States ? She said ... sure ! I like this chinese tradition . hahaha
Not that I was going to take adventage of this custom , but does bring up some strange thought's ... wouldn't you say .

Vince G:
I don't think it is difficult to admit a mistake? as to overseeing or letting some things pass to continue with the relationship.

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