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Passion in Interracial Relationships

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Josh Markley:
I honesty believe it's different for everyone.  In my short but wonderful experience, the passion was more intense.  I have to agree with Arnold and Hans on many things in which really hieghtens the passion in dating interracially online.  The fact is its not easy to find that "IT" girl.  It took me five years of searching to find my ex (To be fair she found me).  After we find them then it takes patience.  Patience in every aspect.  The patince to talk to someone only a couple hours a day, with only seeing that person via webcam.  Patience in dealing with language and using translating devices.  But all that really pays off in the long run.  Many of the pressures with dating are eased because by the time you meet that person, you know alot about them. 

To answer your question, is yes for me it is true that there was more passion in my relationship. 

temur72:
I have a couple of theories

1. Eroticism, different ethnic groups will be seen as being more erotic. Possibly creating more passion for at least a period of time

2. As to the length of passion in the relationship. I think that the continual learning about each other will take longer in an intercultural relationship (as opposed to interracial), an American marring a Chinese person is going to have a longer learning curve in finding out all the things about their spose. The continual learning could lesson the complacency that can occur in same cultural marriages.

Rhonald:

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2. As to the length of passion in the relationship.
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Man could I PUNtificate this one  ;D but since this thread was started by a lady I will keep the jest to myself.  ;)

But I do have to say my two favorite words in the English language are "P" words: Prudence & Passion

Both are required for a long succesfull relationship.  :)

temur72:
I honestly missed the pun potential of what I wrote

Rhonald:
Sorry Temur - my subconscious mind never seems to shut off. Sometimes my Puns are a little inappropriate.

I do agree with your posting on Eroticism since I believe the exoticism of Asian ladies enhances the perception. I guess my imagination to the Pun was triggered by your word choice and a healthy Love life needs a sprinkling of eroticism and imagination to ignite passion.

So please excuse my tilting at windmills of my mind.

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