I'd love the input of the experienced members of the site on my situation. I have been talking to this girl for just over two weeks now exclusively. We get along famously so far, and our letters have been lengthy and very nice. She's been pretty affectionate through the letters, which put me on my guard a bit, but there have not been any of the trappings or signs of it being a come-on or scam like I've read here. She answers and asks lots of questions in each letter, has sent me a personal photo, and speaks the same way in each letter. In my last letter, I asked for a personal e-mail/chat name, and we are currently on MSN chatting up a storm. Her English is excellent, and we're having fun. She does seem a bit persistent, however, in asking if I'm going to come to China, and how soon.
Does it seem like its moving too quickly to an outsider, or does it seem natural? I like her quite a bit, and am considering making the trip, but part of me is also telling me to slow down and be cautious. Any input or opinions from you guys would be much appreciated!