Hi Jason
Aussie, Aussie..Oi, Oi, Oi !!!!
Glad to see another Aussie with his feet firmly on the path to paradise
With a bit of luck we will soon outnumber these Canuks here !!!
If you step out onto the road in Aus, as you know, you WILL get hit by a car or a motorbike. If you step out into the road in China...you wont. I know it sounds strange but it takes a great leap of faith to do it, and while you are there, you wont see many accidents...dont ask me how the streets arent littered with bodies...it is a complete mystery to me, but it works. Just close your eyes and go !!!
Always keep spare Jocks close...especially when riding in taxis !
Regarding "OK".....your words to Wendy that you would like her to stay with you forever.....Man, you just proposed !!! I would be pretty sure that this is how she would regard your words. Remember, however good her English is, she wont have the understanding of the subtleties and your words will be taken literally. DONT ever break a promise to a Chinese Lady....they always hold you to your word.............
Its a very good idea to do the right thing with Mum and Dad, even though the language thing is a bit tricky...but dive in, meet them and let them see that you have "honourable intentions" for their daughter. Once they understand this, you will be amazed how they will take you completely into their lives and treat you with absolute freindship, respect and attention. It is a very profound experience to be welcomed into a Chinese family.
Grett start you have made...keep it up and enjoy