Shaun: $26,666 Canadian but even if its American is not much more (go Canadian Economy)
She's young at 27 (I'm 30) and I guess she has a value for herself that's pretty high. She's saying that because there are a lot more men then woman in China (true), its very easy for a woman to find a man to marry but not the other way around. I know a lot of cities (Beijing, Shanghai, etc) girls won't marry a guy unless he has a house/car. She's from Handan so I thought it would be safer going after someone in a smaller city. The thing is, I have a home and a car in Canada, and its not a big deal for me. I wanted her for who and what she is, but she won't budge on the dowry thing. I have no issues with a small token amount but $26,666 is just nuts.
I'm just disappointed with the set back after all this time and after pouring my heart out to her.