Where to live ? It's funny , since my Wife is with me now in the US .. I have ask her many times . Would you be willing to move to back to Shanghai . It's alway's the same answer . NO , I like it here ( don't know if it's me or the States ) and Shanghai is even more expensive there now .. which is true . But I would love to be able to live there if it was possible . Ahhh .. why complain if she enjoys it here , bad economy and all . Deep down , I feel she would ratter be back , but does what is best for her LaoGong . One of the big differences of a chinese Woman to a Western one ..