Geordie..I feel the need to address some of the things I have read.
You have said in another post that most other people on earth think this is a scam..
You guys do realize that nearly everybody on the planet OTHER than you thinks this stuff is a scam?
From talking to the owner of the agency I met my wife through, she told me Chnlove has approximately 25000 male members. This is not her agency..this is chnlove. She is attended 10 marriages in the month of April, with one of them being mine...and the next day, traveling north from Chenzou to Wuhan to attend another. 10 weddings in a month does not sound like a scam to me. Just because people are meeting in a very unconventional way, does not make this a scam site.
Before I payed for anything here, I wanted to know what I was paying for. I was paying for a translator to go over my letter, and translate it into Chinese character, or verbally translate it to my lady in Mandarin. This is a very specialized field. At first, i was not sure I liked the idea of a third party reading my letters. But I bit the bullet, and went with it. I am happy I did, because I have also made a new friend with my translator.
I have tried to use Google Translate, and Yahoo Babelfish. I still use these when I talk to my wife on MSN or QQ. And I also know that these translation tools mess up quite often. I do not mind now, because we have developed a relationship...but had I tried to use these in the beginning, we would never have gotten off the ground. So I personally needed the use of a translator. Look in the phone book, and try to find a translator for the same price as a chnlove translator.
I am getting tired of you running down everything we are doing here. If you don't want to be a part of chnlove, then go elsewhere. We know where to find the conspiracy theory sites, so if we have a change of heart about chnlove, we will happily join you over there. But until then, please let us live in our imaginary world of make believe, because some of us actually like it here, and still believe this is all real. Some of us are happily married, and are happy with the services that chnlove provides.
So I am asking you nicely, either post elsewhere, or start posting something more positive. We are a support group for male members of chnlove.com. If you really want to have a proper debate on this, email chnlove directly, and leave us be.
Thank you
Martin (AKA Mading...Mading Bear...Dinger))