Long Distance Relationships (LDR) are tough as heck as many of the bro's know here.
Its Friday night, I'm sitting here home alone and missing my Lao Po badly. When she is here we will be doing something at this time, we'll be out with friends or snuggling up by the fire watching a DVD ..doing stuff that's loving and romantic and makes us feel good.
But here I am, i miss her like crazy so I thought - lets make something good out of this! Here's a few things i do to try and make the relationship alive and pass the time apart faster. I would love if any of you guys can add to the list.
1) Send her a sms every night (sometimes i forget but she never complains, I know she likes them when i send them - she says the first thing she does when she wakes up is check her mobile for my morning message) so she has a message on her mobile every morning so when she wakes, this is cheap and easy to do -
http://www.talk2china.com/english/ is a great way to send cheap texts to China
2) Write her emails - even though we webcam and chat on the phone when we cannot webcam. I am not a great letter writer, i don't do this enough, she told me once that she prints them out and reads them at night in bed..i really should do that more often.
3) Webcam, webcam, webcam! A picture speaks a thousand words, you can do silly dances, show her the back of your head and other weird stuff she likes on webcam - do it as often as possible!!
4) Phone calls - I work shift and that means we cannot webcam some days but i can call her on my lunch break, sometimes a phone is more intimate.
5) Surprise her - an email, flowers a gift when its not a special occasion is always nice. You can never go wrong with roses to show her your love.
6) Try to do stuff together if possible - one time i was on shift and because of the time difference she said she would call me as my alarm clock - that rocked! i woke up to my phone ringing and her name on the phone..what a great way to wake up - and hit a cold shower!
I miss my Sunny like crazy right now, any other ways you guys have to pass the time and show your love for your girls?
