You will need to make some plans for your daughters involvement. If she is to be bridesmaid it will be very difficult at the marriage office. It is not like a ceremony as in a UK registrars office.
You get the paperwork filled out and just sit back whilst they enter the details. You read from a declaraition page and so does the lady. You sit back again and they give you a little red book and your married.
One thing that you should check on right away is can the office in the ladies home town actually marry you! My wife's home city in Hengyang but they cannot marry foreigners as they did not have foreigners facilities and we had to go to Changsha.
Make sure that they can do it and plan accordingly.
Willy
Thanks for the advice Willy my old china,but things do and did differ in Fuzhou today when we tied the knot yesterday.
Firstly after i had got my cert of no impeciment in the UK i emailed Lin Fang with both sides of the cert ,which is the side we get from the Registry office,and on the back is attached the legalisation stamp from the home office and the authentication from the Chinese embassy in London .Fang took this copy to the Marriage office and checked it was what they required ,they comfirmed this was all in order and all they needed.
So we caught the train late on Sunday night into Fuzhou ,and the following morning went to the original marriage office only to find it had moved in the last month ,so another taxi jaunt to the new office .We filled out a form and got some copies ot the relevant pages of out passports,paid 200 RMB and were told to get 3 pictures together for the records,one for each red book and the other they keep on record and come back tomorrow .
They were not interested in mine or Lin Fangs decrees of divorce or indeed my self penned single cert i had done .
Off we went in the afternoon to a digital process shop ,and jesus these guys using adobe are amazing ,made me look almost human .30RMB was the cost of the passport sized pictures of us both.
This morning we were off at 9.30 to the office ,the girl checked the pics were us ,made out the red marriage book for both of us ,we both signed another form ,cost 9 RMB for this mornings offerings and bingo we were married.
Actually Willy as you say, my daughter had no part in the actual visits to do the formalities part of the marriage as above ,her part i guess will be on the 9 th when we have the Bun Fight in Xiapu.
So up and coming brothers on the road to getting hitched in china,whichever country your from ,make sure you ,as other brotheres have stated before ,that you check out the relevant requirements,rules and regulations, as obviously things do differ between provinces.
And now we start the difficult part .............the Visa application,the Uk guys be aware the beaurocratic t..ts have re jigged forms round ,and made it a right minefield ,it took me all night checking the various forms before i got the right one (assuming i have ) im using VAF4A SETTLEMENT
Update on the Bun Fight on the 9 th will maybe after im back,unless i can find time before i return ,along with some pics hopefully
Cheers
Mick