Well.
I don't really know if my post will be "clear enough", but I will try to do my best for anybody here to understand it as well.
Since more than 8 months, I am on Chnlove and also, I joined the Facebook's forum related to Chnlove. I "saw" many men over there, helpful, giving good advices, and many other things to take in consideration, to learn and to memorize.
I was really happy to see a real nice brotherhood.
The forum "moved" or better would I say "was created" once again, here. Many members came, new ones came, too, and it became a bit bigger. A good news, so. Congratulation, Ronan, and all those who helped on this forum.
With it, there are always many stories to share, some good advices to give and to listen, the famous 24h rules and still many other things.
For any reason, I still don't really understand and know why I'm the only french to be here. I don't really know how it can be for swedishes and other men outside Great Britain, U.S.A and Australia, if you speak in english everyday or not, but I doubt anyway that german do.
Maybe, in my personal case, would I say that it is almost difficult to really understand all the threads here. It is also really difficult to understand many jokes and many other things... well, maybe is it because I'm not really as good in english as I would have thought... who knows? But for sure, I'm just a minority here with my nationality (like some other ones), and, even if I can speak in english, my first language is french.
Sometimes, I do admit that I'm fed up with it, just because I don't really know how to understand something, then I try to see if I can understand by reading again, or with any translator tool... but most of the time, there's nothing to do. I then reply something that (I think), everybody can understand it. Some other time, most of you explain me in another way, and thanks for that
I'm really happy to read some new stories and many other topics.
Well.
I'm not often connected on MSN but I also was in contact with 2 members from here, a few times ago. I do remember about Ed and his nice advices, and for the discussions we could had. Many thanks again
I also do remember about another one... but I would say it is a bit "sad" because for anything I still don't really understand, I got no any reply anymore since a moment... Well... Maybe would anybody say that "best is the indifference"...
If so, just tell me what a brotherhood is and all its real meaning when you ask him any good advice or anything that could help...
However, I will not give his name, but he'll surely recognize himself easily.
I tried to understand why I did not have any reply to my last mails... but what else to do, facing a wall who seems to not respond you? Maybe in China, chinese ladies don't reply to all letters, they just reply to the most important ones... but I'd then say that we're still westerners at first and there's a way to communicate. Who would say I'm not polite when writting/talking and trying to understand what's wrong? Maybe is it that way to be that can be boring:huh:
For any other reply said from him on one of my recent threads, I still don't really know if it still is like some "teasing" or not at all... and even if I should wait any hours, I still don't know the answer. But what can I do, so, when I see that writting any other mail would not be really helpful...
That's why I feel a bit "bored" and, the more the days go, the more I don't really like that way to be.
Maybe am I wrong, maybe did I say something wrong, maybe did I do something which was not good...I don't know. But if so, then i apologize.
I left the forum on CHNLOVE.
I also will leave this one, too.
Maybe do some of you think that I can really understand all and nothing here, maybe will you also think I'm nosey, too. Even if it was like some "teasing", I would just say that yes, I ask many questions, yes I try to do my best to understand. But when sometimes, I don't understand many things and that I don't really know how to be with another member here, except feeling "neutral"...I would just say "what a pity".
If some members here felt like "injured" or felt that I am too "nosey" or asking so many questions, sorry so, but it wasn't meant anyway to bother anyone here.
I tried to bring up some ideas, maybe most of them are not good, but I also tried to do my best to give any good advices/ideas and any other things else that might can be helpful or be useful.
Maybe was the thread about the age "not polite"...but I do still believe that some members disagree with that thread.
I prefer not staying because of the atmosphere I dislike those last days. It's my way to be, sorry but I assume it. Not concerning all of you, for sure. Just me... and because of any "misunderstood? " with someone else.
I've learned many things here thanks to many members. But I just want to give up now because I do think that sometimes, when something goes wrong and that you can't solve it, maybe the best thing to do is to turn back and go away.
I won't come back again. It is also my choice and I know that it goes one way when I'm like that.
I think I said what I wanted to say, so, just know that I really enjoyed many moments with all of you. I Wish all of you the best about your love stories in China.
Enjoy your trips and life.
Thanks again for all your efforts and understanding,
Sylvain
