Jimmy , as I have mentioned many times .. Qing and I carried everything we ever done together with us to the Embassy . All they looked at was my Passport ( three Visa's for four Trips ) and a couple of our photo's .. that was it for us . So do take ALL your have and can think of with you . I'm sure now they'll know about the failed Interview before , so they will .. which I'm sure .. ask for a lot more Proof this time . You lived with your Wife all this time , so go show them the photo's ( with date's on them if possible ) of that and all what you have done together as a married couple . This I'm certain will be most important to them , as they already know about the other Paperwork from the last time . Give your Wife your Passport to show them , even if they don't ask for it , let them know she has it on her . Good Luck Jimmy !