First and foremost... the following is just my opinion. Take it for what it's worth.
I see nothing -nothing wrong with anyone ( male or female) trying to better their-self. If you really stop to think about it, that is why we are all here to begin with. I confess that is why I am here. I am here trying to obtain the knowledge and advice to be with the one I love. plain and simple
I was directed to this forum by a Chinese female ( Crystal Tao) who was also met with some skepticism by a few here. Crystal was the first person to know of my problem ( Ping being married) since this problem was beyond her realm of knowledge, she was kind enough to direct me here( I am glad she did)
I know there are scams perpetuated by a few agencies and females out there, but we would be stupid to think, that there aren't a equal or greater number of male players /playboys who are only looking for a sex- cation and would do or say anything to make that happen as well.
Looking at my address bar that says
http://www.chinaromance.net and the header at the top of the page That says "China Love -relationships in China" with the double happiness symbol -I can see how a Chinese lady could be confused and join thinking she might find someone and better herself. Instead of attacking, shouldn't we be more helpful and guide her .....after-all she might just be looking for the same thing, we are all looking for..... love plain and simple.
