Hi guys and girls, Willy, you was correct that my last post was out of sheer anger and frustration, My wife does not like me having QQ friends as she says Chinese women can be unscrupulous and will do anything to find a foreign man weather married or not, A QQ friend of mine sent me a kiss as a joke , she is younger than me and i have no interest in her or any other woman but my wife, MinYing saw this and was furious, so all hell broke loose, anyway i have calmed down and explained to my wife that this was a joke and nothing more.
I reminded my wife that I travelled to China 7 or 8 times to be with her and her only, Never before in my life have i travelled abroad to be with a woman, she often needs reminding that she is my one and only, she is in the thinking that some younger woman will steal me away from her.
MinYing has not had a job for some months now and is bored staying at home so her mind is wondering and playing tricks on her, I leave for work around 5;30 every morning and arrive home around 4--4;30, if i wash my hands before i come home then she thinks i have been to see someone else, when she had a job she was happy and content and her mind was at ease, A few days ago she started a new job and i can see she has changed back to her old ways, very loving and affectionate,
, Well this is not the end of our relationship just another bump along the road, To those 2 guys that sent me a private email i thank you, its good to know that there are people here who have had similar problems and are willing to help, John