Larry
The point I was making about the apparent "obsessive" fear of spending money that is shown by my wife (and I suspect, many others) was to demonstrate one of the "culture" differences that was getting a bit tedious for me.......just needed a place to moan about it and get some altenative feedback from the Bros.
I thank you for your input, and all is cool now.
I am not a frivolous teenager, splurging money irresponsibly, I am a mature adult and I have managed my finances with skill and prudence all my life. I have not the need, patience or inclination to take 2 hours haggling over $1 !!!!....life is too short. At the same time, I have used my money to enhance the quality of my life. Hoarding it in a Bank whilst living the life of a deprived peasant dont float my boat !! But having enough to be secure and comfortable for the future has always been my plan....thats what I work hard for.
I am not inclined to go through some meaningless dance to demonstrate to my wife that I am responsible...she accepts my way of doing things...or she doesn't....it is her choice.
I have come to an agreement with her that she can have her own money and she can be as frugal as she wishes, I will be happy whatever she decides...but dont expect me to do the same. But all the bills will be paid on time, we will always have enough money to do what we want, and life will be good
Thats as far as I am wanting to compromise in this area
David