Hi Arnold,
There isn't much of a story . We met about Sept, 2009 and I've been over to see her about 4 times. I will go in Jan. to propose to her so i can start on the VISA process so i can get her to Hawaii in about 6-9 months. I am thinking of hiring Marc Ellis and Eunice, who contacted me when i was looking for help on VISA. She is Marc's paralegal, and I will hire Eunice to help my girlfriend fill out the paperwork and if she has any questions. Recently i put out a post for couples who (the wife) came from China so i can hopefully have my girlfriend meet some Chinese women who already live in Hawaii so they can communicate and my girlfriend can ask questions about what it's like living in Hawaii. The my girlfriend won't be too afraid and apprehensive about moving here. I've met Mike Hodges , who posts here I believe, and he said there are a lot of couples with the wife in her 3o's and the husband in their 50 or 60's . That must be fun getting together with all of them. My girlfriend and me have those age gaps too.
You seem like a really happy camper and I'm just so happy for you and your wife.
Wilfred