Hi Victor, you can find more here
http://www.songtaste.com/user/36692/allrecthe three buttons at the end of the page, first is "select all", second is "play", third "add to your music box" (which requires log-in)
Here my heart feels an urge to say something about a newly hot thread, about a lady contacting more than one man. My point is here.
Equal play is not fair play. In the name of equal play, we can acknowledge U.S. and Al Qaeda the same right to use massive destructive weapon freely. In the name of fair play, no.
Let's review the definition of Fair, "free from favoritism or self-interest or bias or deception; or conforming with established standards or rules".
It's dangerous to lapse into this logic. When one side has the right to do something, the other has the same too. As a person of intergrity, we will always remember what we can do, what we cannot, regardless of what other people do.
According to my limited experience, all the successful relationships I witnessed, come from one-to-one communication which starts very early. It is not a good thing for us agency and chnlove to create an atmosphere which encourages or indulge men and women to try multi-correspondence. It is our mission to build their cofidence and give them possitive support to try one-to-one communication, which is the only way to true love in my opinion.
Surely true love takes risk. But the tradeoff is clear. When you pay 100%, you lose that 100% or you get 100% in return. When you pay 50%, you may lose 50% or get 50% in return. Even if someone is shrewd enough to pay 50% and have his or her partner paying 100%, God will ask from you that 50% you get more than your share, sooner or later, I firmly believe.
A translator has their job, also their mission. Sometimes the two contradict each other. My personal opinion, mission higher than job. As I have said before, a translator can at the same time help some people and do opposite to other people. Whether they do more helpful things or more hurting things, depends on their own conscience. (on this topic, I have some confession to make, maybe later)
So far, I showed no ability to change the relentless reality, in which men and women are both vulnerable to cheating from each other without effective protection. To challenge your strength and maturity, I will quote a remark from Vince where he was left "only to find she was just waiting for the first guy to make it there. Like it was a race of who crossed the finish line first." which cannot be more precise to describe the general reality of this trade of international marriage. Sorry it might be a little frustrating and disencouraging but you'll find out sooner or later. Sometimes your happiness depends not on who you are but on how fast you can make it.
My apology also to some special guests sooner or later. I predict if this forum's popularity and influence continues to grow, chnlove staff and even translators from other agencies might visit. I'm sorry if my words may not sound appealing to you but perhaps unpleasant advice is a good medicine.
