Many on this forum know my story. Came to China in June 2009, had two disappointments and then a lot of fun in the following two months.
Then in September 2009 I met a really nice, kind lady who had more interest in me than money and she stole the old heart beating inside of me.
At that time she was with THE AGENCY. But during the course of the first week or so it was apparent that certain things said to me by the translator were just lies.
As soon as I found the truth I contacted the translator and told her my feelings and that I was considering taking her, the translator, or the agency, or both, to court.
Within ten minutes, my now wife, had received a telephone call from the agency boss who basically told her that she was not to speak to anyone and that they were cancelling her agreement forthwith. Which they did as she later collected the torn up original copy.
I told her to push for a refund of the initial deposit as well but she said that she would not as meeting me was worth much more than that!
Four months after our first meeting and having seen each other every day to ensure that we knew we were in fact mean’t to be, we were married. Her for the second time and me for the first.
Did I rush it, I think not. We have been together for 16 months and during that time, apart from a few visa issues with officials, we have been very happy indeed.
Only thing is I do not want life to go past so fast as tomorrow we celebrate our first wedding anniversary.
Willy