Shaun and Peggy, I can imagine how devastated how you both are feeling right now, Our hearts go out to both of you, I consider myself to be a reasonably strong man but with the hoops we have to jump through to find our true love and bring them home with us sometimes is very challenging and sometimes i feel so broken,My journey has just begun with the visa process and i am feeling pressure from every where, You are right,War it is and i know you will not give up, I hope we all win our battles and come out on top, Good luck my friend, Regards from MinYing and John.