hi guys, just as update on my situation
my wife is now going to come to the UK ,
and as told me it is time for her son to stand on is own two feet now
he must accept that i come first in her life ,
which i feel is wonderful that my wife as taken a stance on this situation
this is a way of showing how much she loves me to her son
anyway now i have to preprare all documents needed for this situation
after my wife as now to study English and pass this exam (Basic English listening and speaking)
with a little bit of luck we hope September /October she will be in UK
now all i need to do now is find a extra income times are tough in England
thanks Arnold, David E , willy the Londoner ,for your feed back much appreciated
regards Joe /Sophia